Buy Something New for YOUR house

This post is pretty simple if you are living together already. However is you are not currently living with your partner you need to do some planning. I want you to go to the store or hardware store this weekend and purchase something for your house together. It can be decorations or a new television. Just make sure it fits in your budget. Discuss the things you need or want before you go and then make sure what ever you pick out you both are in agreement on. Then bring it home a put it up, set it up, or build it together. Then just flop down on the couch together and put your arms around each other a bask in the glow of your relationship.

Give in a little.

We all love to get our way, however sometimes it is more romantic to give in a little. Now I am not talking about letting someone run over you. I am talking about a simple surrender to make your partner feel special. Maybe it is letting them have the pick of which movie you watch tonight, even though you know the one they will pick will just make you vomit. Maybe you can't decide on which restaurant to eat at. You can suck it up and go with their choice. Giving in a little is great for you relationship, it shows you are committed to working thinks out. You can use this in many ways and you can use it in the bedroom also. Maybe your partner wants you to try a different position, what the heck let it go and give it a try. If it doesn't work at least you can get it out of their mind. Relationships are tricky and sometimes you can't get everything you want. So give in a little and hopefully your partner will return the favor and give in to you, at times.

Help Someone Out!

One thing that will show your partner what a great person you are is to help someone else out. Next time you see someone loading up their groceries lend a helping hand. Make sure to ask if it's okay first, you don't want to be a creepy person. Then help load up their groceries. You could also stop and help someone out with car problems or with a flat tire. It can be as simple as helping a child put their chain back on their bike or helping out a friend with a cook out. Just look for anything that would help someone out. Don't expect anything in return, the simple feeling you get should be enough. I use to drive around in my father's truck that had a snow plow on the front and help scoop out peoples drive ways. They always offered me money but I never accepted any the feeling was enough. Once your partner sees that you are truly doing this to simply help other out they will see you in a different light.

Have some fun at the store.

We all hate going to the store. It is just one of those chores you have to do week in and week out. Maybe your partner goes for the two of you or maybe it is you that does the weekly task. Well you chore might not be as bad as you think.

Next time it's time to get the supplies, make a point for the two of you to go together. Make sure you have plenty of time and plenty of money. Shopping together usually cost more for some reason. Do some browsing, together find things that you would like to have or need at your home and make notes of it. This comes in handy for holidays such as Christmas, or even birthdays. The thing I really want you to do is to see how many silly things you can find in the store. Go up and down each aisle and look for those silly things. Things like pink salsa bowls or kitchen utensils that look like they should be in the adult toy store. Laugh, joke, and use your humor together. Make up uses for some of the most ridiculous things your find. Just make sure not to get kicked out of the store. This might become a ritual and make your shopping a little less painful.

Keep your hands off the melons, make sure to check out the condom aisle, find the largest pair of panties in the store, and spend some quality time laughing with your partner. You might enjoy going to the store after all this is said and done.

Tonights distractions go out the window!

Tonight is a night that you need to put all focus on your relationship. Express this feeling to your partner. Make an agreement that tonight whatever you are going to do will have no distractions. Forget the cell phones, no television, no sports, no computer and no interruptions. This is a night that is quietly set aside for the two of you. Have you ever been to dinner when you partners phone rings and they talk for a few minutes, if you like me you feel a little shorted on your time together. I don't care if you are newly dating or have been married for several years. You still owe your partner respect while you are focusing on your relationship. You can leave numbers to the places you will be attending in case of emergency's, but other then that your undivided attention should be focused on each other. Don't sit at the restaurant and watch sports on the television either, I have a bad habit of doing this one. Football season is the worst for me, but I try to sit myself facing away from any television so I am not tempted.

Another point to make on this distractions point is don't go to place that doesn't allow you the noise level to chat. Forget the new club with it's loud music, or the professional basketball game or any place you cannot talk to each other easily. Quite places such as parks, museums, or beaches are great for walking and talking. Don't forget to hold hands also. Remember this is to be a date and all distractions need to be thrown out the window. Well don't literally throw them out the window, cell phones are expensive.

Wish on a star!

Tonight I want you both to go outside and look up at the stars. Then makes some wishes for the two of you as a couple. Weather it be to get married in a couple of years, or to buy your first home together. You can wish for silly things like hoping he wears his sexy boxers to bed tonight or the mailman will bring a huge check to your house. Have fun with this and dream a little spend sometime thinking about where the both of you are heading and the special things you want to enjoy together. Things such as trips, or children, or even pets might be great things to wish for. The big test of this is to set goals that we are calling wishes her but they are things you can strive for together. Now hopefully it will be a clear night wherever you are. If not jump on the internet and pull up some pictures of the stars.

Ladies choice!

Okay tonight you are ready for a great night of sex. You would love for you wife, partner, or girlfriend to give you a play by play of what she would like. What do you do if your partner is a little more reserved about letting you know her likes or dislikes. A lot of people men as well as women have a hard time asking or tell their partner what they want or fantasies about. Don't fear however I have a couple of solutions that might help you out.

If your like most couples you have a drawer full of sex toys, lubes, simulators, etc. Yet it seems like you don't go to it very much for fear your more reserved partner might not want to, because they won't talk about it. Well take the embarrassment out of their hands. Tell them you are going to leave the room and you would like them to pick out a couple of items form the drawer they would like to use. Tell them to stick the items inside your pillow case and turn out the lights when they are ready. With the lights out and the items tucked away, it will seem like they didn't really pick out the things you are going to use on them. This might be a great way for them to open up about their sexual preferences so make sure you use the items they have picked. Take turns once a week and do the same for your partner by placing things you want to experience in their pillowcase the next time.

Another way you can get them to open up about their wants is to give them an outlet other then talking. Let them right down what they want to do. They could do it on paper, through email, or even text you. Give them room to do this, and don't set there and look over their shoulder. Leave the room and have them give you a sign when they are done. Again you can take turns doing this as it is only fair both partners get a chance.

It seems silly that we sometimes have trouble conversing about sex to our partner. Sometimes it comes from the way we were brought up and what our parents instilled in us. Other times people are just shy or fear the other persons reactions about their choices. Doing these things a few times might loosen up your talking about them at a later time.