Fall is a great time for romantic walks and hayrides during harvest.

The colors and beauty of fall is all around us and once in a while we even get some warm weather. So take advantage of any day that warms up and grab your partner and head out on a wonderful walk that will let you enjoy the vast colors of autumn. Plan a walk through the woods or on a path that has lots of different trees so you get a contrast of colors. Streams can add a nice back ground sound for you walk and the leaves rushing down the river add a zest you can only find in the fall. Make sure to take a sweatshirt or coat in case it gets a little chilly in the cover of the woods. Another great idea is to find a hayride that takes you through the beautiful country side. Grab a blanket and snuggle up as you ride along and get to experience this time of year that is a wonderful time. The harvest time has always been a great time to enjoy life, it was when all the crops were stored and ready for the winter. Winter will soon be here so get out and enjoy the crisp clean air with you mate. Breath it in and smell the wonderful scents of autumn as you stroll hand in hand.

Mr. Softy

What do you do if you member suddenly becomes non responsive. You are in the middle of a great time and your usually stiff and ready friend becomes MR. SOFTY!!!! First of all don't panic, that is the worst thing you can do. Becoming concerned and freaking out will not help you get your erection back. First thing you need to do is stay calm and relax, play it off a little and tell you partner that they might need to wake your sleeping member up. Things that might work are playing with Mr. Softy, or other areas that usually excite you. Ask for stimulation on your taint or anus, maybe just kissing will do the trick or some mouth to mouth for Mr. Softy might work. I know we have all heard it before but it happens to most people at some point and time. If the problem continues you should see your doctor, because the last thing you want to do is let the effect you. Search the internet for home based cures that don't involve digesting disgusting things. This might also be a clue that something else is wrong with your body so again see your doctor. If you clean up your diet and avoid drinking alcohol you might see a quick change. There are several things that can lead to this problem like spending to much time on your bike to stress in your life. Try to think what has changed and begin eliminating those things one by one and see where that gets you. However I cannot tell you enough that going to see your doctor is the best advice and course of action.

Okay men it's our turn to find something sexy to wear.

Nothing thrills me more then my partner to wear something sexy to bed. One it makes her feel beautiful and it also makes me feel great. Knowing that my partner is thinking of looking sexy for me and her is a great turn on. For men however this is not a easy as it sounds. We are kinda limited in what we can wear to bed with our partner. We don't want to wear our normal everyday underwear but we don't want to look like a really bad stripper either. Where can a guy find nice sexy underwear that isn't on the edge of sleazy? I think the first thing you can do is buy some underpants that you only wear on special dates. Pick a day when you partner will see you in your unusually underpants and get them wondering, "where did he get those" Surprising them with something they have not seem before might just turn them on a little. If that doesn't work then pick up a different style of underpants that you don't normally wear. If you are a tighty whitey guy then pick up some silk boxers, or even boxer brief are nice. Get some it bright colors or with different patterns on them so they draw attention to your package. Let you partner touch and feel them as you are wearing them not only for yourself but for them also. hisroom.com carries several different types of underpants for you to choose from and you can click on the title of this post to be whisked away to that site.

Want to learn about female sexuality, then learn from the Queen

Deborah Sundahl is on of the pioneers in female sexuality. She has authored many books on the subject and is world wide renown for her work. A good deal of her works focuses on female ejaculation, her book "Female Ejaculation and the G Spot" is a great read for anyone interested in the subject. Her open demeanor and candid explanations are just what you need to break through and really find out about female sexuality. She also has produced several videos on the subject and has workshops around the country for those more interested. After reading "Female Ejaculation and the G Spot" my curiosity was peaked. I wanted to learn as much as I could about what I thought was a myth. My findings proved me wrong and I now believe in female ejaculation, I have not experienced it yet but I am currently working towards that goal. Go to the Amazon side bar and click on it to go to Amazon front page and purchase this book I am sure you will be glad you did.

How do our viewers relax after a hard day.

The results are in on our survey on how your relax after a hard day. We have a three way tie for the top spot. The answers have sex with partner, snuggle with partner, and read a book, split the top spots. I am glad that two of the answers involve physical contact because I feel that after a hard day the touch of your partner can make you troubles disappear if only for a short time. Next time you partner has a rough day tell them you feel for them and then put your hands on them, caress them, sooth them, it could make their bad day better.

Warm her up to get the most out of your sexual relationship.

Men we have a hard time understanding that we need to warm up a woman to get her in the mood for some loving that will last all night. We are simple creatures, as soon as we feel the urge we are ready, we have no warm up phase. Woman however need to be gently guided towards that feeling that just happens in us. We have to take our time and get the mood just right, which is hard for us because we are ready to pounce right now. Gentlemen let me put it to your this way the warming up is a way to make the love making last longer, by slowing down a bit the activities will last longer into the night. The more time you take the better she will be a receiving your advances. We all here the jokes about how quick men are and that their partners wish they could last longer, well let me tell you the sexual stamina isn't what will get it for you. The foreplay and the building of excitement will get your female companion to the point she need to be at. Don't be embarrassed if you need help in this matter, there are several books out on the subject of foreplay that can help you. The main thing is not to rush. Most of us are so excited when we get to engage in these activities that we dive right in, but believe me that is the worst thing you can do. Take your time, that feeling isn't going to go away especially if you push all the right buttons. Now go out and get your love making in shape and take your time.

It's about time to fire up the fireplace.

The air outside is starting to get cold and it is about time to fire up the fireplace. Nothing is more romantic then sitting with your lover snuggled up in front of a nice cosy fireplace. This is something you need to think about when purchasing a house. Especially if you are buying the house in the heat of the summer. In the summer you might not think a fireplace is that important. Let's look at the romance factor. Sipping wine in front of a fireplace snuggled up with you honey. The crackling sound the smell of the wood, being in your own house, things could get a little heated up and why shouldn't they. If you have a fireplace now is the time to make sure it is in good order. Get someone out to clean the chimney, clean out the opening and get all the old ashes out. That way when the time comes to build that first romantic fire of the season you or your love won't be disappointed.