Monday, September 14, 2009

Introduce you partner to your childhood



A fun and romantic thing to do is discuss the toys you had when you were growing up. Tell your partner about your favorite toys and how you use to play with them. Don't be ashamed I am sure the both of you have played with things you might have been embarrassed by in the past. This helps you partner get a inside look at the way you were raised. If all you played with was sports equipment then they will understand a little better why you love to play golf all the time now. If you had barbies and had a hundred outfits for them they might understand why you closet is so full now. Believe me you will see some correlation between the past and the present. Give it a try tonight.

Sunday, September 13, 2009

Naps


On thing people don't usually considers romantic is naps. Taking a break on a lazy Sunday afternoon is a great way to get close and relax together. Turn on some football, get into some comfy clothes and snuggle down together. If you don't want to sleep that is okay just be close. Their is something about a little drowsy nap to get you closer. Maybe a little rumble in the sheets before a nap is a good thing for the two of you. However, the nap will get you energized for later activities or just maybe a movie or a walk. Don't miss the signs if your body is telling you to take a nap, you must need one. Naps are so much better though with someone you love holding or touching you.

Friday, September 11, 2009

Results of our Poll



The results of our pole on what you find sexy is in.


60% of our viewers responded that undergarments such as boxers, lingerie, and bra and panties were the sexiest things people could wear.

20% thought that just your normal day clothing was the sexiest

5% thought that role play clothing was hot.

5% thought that just being naked was the hottest!

This goes to show us that people that view Romantic Antics for Men (and Women, too), like a little mystery in their sex life. They don't want sexy outfits thrust into their faces. These stats also show that they like to have their partner dressed up in a little package for them like a present. Unwrapping those presents are oh so nice.

Get off the path!




If you like to take walks, you sometimes find yourself going over the same ways every time. The next time you take a walk get off the path. Don't follow your same routine get out and explore your neighborhood if it is safe. Walk through the grass, go places that you haven't been to before and enjoy the fresh air and scenery. We all get stuck in our normal routines and this is a great way for the two of you to break out and experience something new together. Drive to a different city and get out and walk their downtown area. Window shop or just find a little place and see what it has to offer. The point is you are doing this together and that is the romantic part.

Thursday, September 10, 2009

Be Yourself


So many times in the beginning of a relationship we try to be someone we are not. Maybe you try to act like your favorite actor or actress, which doesn't work in my case because Adam Sandler is not high on many women's list. Our you try to act like other people that you think have it down. However as much as it seem silly the best person to be is yourself. Lay all your little quirks out on the table from the beginning. If you like Star Wars let them know during your conversation. If your person you are with sees the real you from the beginning you will have a lot better chance of the relationship working for the long haul. Plus you will know that the person is about you and not about the person your acting like. You don't want to be six months into a relationship and find out your partner thinks your Star Wars fixation is childish and you should abandon it at once. Things like that are better known from the start. As you begin a new relationship take heart and be yourself, you might just thank yourself later for doing it. Plus you will find someone that likes you for you, and that is worth all the lightsabers in the world.

Wednesday, September 9, 2009

Want something sexy and cute to say or send to your partner?

"If sex is such a natural phenomenon, how come there are so many books on how to do it?"-Bette Midler

We all now that communication is the key to any good relationship. Blah, blah, blah we have heard it so many times that we are thinking of getting it tattooed on our arms. However I think romantic humor is also very important. Does you partner have to be serious whenever you discuss your love life? You know sex is suppose to be fun, exciting, passionate, hot, and a lot of other adjectives, but no where does anyone say it has to be serious. Can you have serious sex? Think about it for a moment and even if you try I bet you would bust up laughing. Some of the best sex I have ever had as ended up with us both lying their exhausted and laughing. If you click here http://www.verses4cards.co.uk/funny-sexy-quotes.html then you will be taken to a website that has funny sexy quotes by some famous and some not so famous people ( or you can click on the title of this post). Use these on your partner at times they need a little giggle. Text them to each other during the day and maybe it will get minds thinking and heat up your night.

Tuesday, September 8, 2009

Staying Focused


One of the hardest things you have to do when entering a new relationship is to stay focused. It is so hard to start thinking as a couple instead of an individual. You have to start thinking about calling before you go places or seeing if your partner would like to go. Grocery shopping becomes a whole different beast when you become a couple. Two people can live cheaper then one but only if they like all the same things. If you go shopping alone you can bet you will forget something you partner wants. This is where you need to stay focused. Make lists of your partners likes and dislikes until you memorize them. This goes for everything not just shopping. Another hard area to get together on is the decorating of your house or apartment. You might have had sports memorabilia up in the living room when you were not part of a couple. However your new partner might have had lots of flowers in their living room. What do you do sports memorabilia and flowers don't go together real well. Here is where we get to that magic word, Compromise. Met somewhere in the middle and make sure the items appeal to both partners. Staying focused in a relationship is tough especially if you are new at it.