Who is the most romantic in your relationship.

Our readers seem to be the dominant partner as to who is the most romantic. 66% of your readers consider themselves as the most romantic in their relationship. This tells me that they are on the net looking for more ways to be romantic. For those of us that feel romance is very important the quest never ends. Because there is no one thing that will always be romantic at all the time. The only advice I can give you on this topic is keep it up, I am proud of your.

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A quote from ME!!!

"Keep pushing romance to the back of your relationship, and that is where you will soon find yourself. At the end of your relationship" Zob Alex

So many people think that romance is something that isn't important and they are foolish. Romance is the glue that holds our relationships together, without it we just become roomates.

Drive them wild with their favorite.

Want to really drive the person you care about wild. First thing you need to do is find a cologne or perfume that they absolutely love. Then when ever you are with them put a little on. Sure when you are going out together they will expect it but do it other times when they least expect it. Like right before getting into bed, or before you start watching a movie at home together. Don't over due it, just a little will do the trick. Put some on when you know the two of you are going to be close, like when the two of your are doing the laundry or doing other house work together. Another romantic thing to do is put a dab on their pillow when they are going to go to bed before you. They might not be able to sleep and will for some reason keep thinking of you. Put a little hint of the smell in their car before they leave for work or better yet do it while they are at work then they will smell your scent all the way home. The important thing here is to get them thinking about you and letting them know that you are thinking about them. If you try any of these suggestions let me know how they work out. I would love to hear your stories, email them to me a thecouplesspot@gmail.com

Another Great Romantic Movie

Adding another great romantic movie to your collection is a great idea. One of my favorites (as always with a little comedy) is "50 first dates". Staring Adam Sandler and Drew Barrymore it is a story about a young lady that loses her memory everyday so the suitor Adam Sandler has to get her to fall in love with him each and every day. It is a hilarious romp through some beautiful scenery. Don't miss this one it will make you laugh and cry and then laugh some more.

Smiling Bob

Don't get me wrong I am not promoting enyzte and I am not getting a kick back from them but it that are interested give me a call. I am posting about the satisfaction you get from really great sex. I know that when I get up after a night of really great love making, I have a goofy smile on my face like Bob does. I feel better, I sleep better, and I am in a great mood. This is why it is hard for me to understand why people in a monogamous relationship don't have sex more often. The health benefits of sex have long been touted and no one questions it the euphoric state is amazing that sex brings with it. Now throw in the fact that you really love and care about your partner and it seems like this is the end all cure for health and relationship problems. Yet so many people struggle to find the happy medium for intimacy in their relationship. Take my advice and error on the side of intimacy, not only does it make you feel great it makes you feel loved and wanted in your long term relationships. Now turn off the game a little early and do your workout at an early time of the day, I want to see more smiling Bobs and Bobettes out there.

Don't let your fingernails ruin a good thing.

We all know that our hygiene is very important to our romantic life. Few of us really take a look at our fingernails in this process. We don't think about things like holding hands or gently scratching someones back until it is to late. Those unkept nails can do damage to your date or partner if they have rough edges on them. It might feel like you are cutting them with a knife if left an attended. I know manicures are expensive and for the guys not the most masculine of things to do but they are well worth the money. If your budget is tight then take care of them yourself but make sure to test them on yourself before you use them on someone else. Run you nails down your arm to make sure you have left know snags or jagged edges. We might think this isn't that big of deal but if you get to have any sexual relations then those jagged edges can leave your partner in a very painful state. Our hands usually help initiate our sexual acts and leaving cuts on your partners privates isn't the way to start a great night of love making. Now maybe you are not in a relationship or dating anyone right now, but your nails might be sending the wrong message as people notice the littlest of things when sizing people up for potential mates. Your unkept fingernails might say to someone that this person isn't into keeping up on their appearance so what will the be like once we get into a relationship. Don't let your fingernails harm or ruin a good relationship keep care of them on a regular basis.

How about a bite!

Currently with the vampire craze that Twilight has created, vampires are again high on the romantic chart. Not saying that you should be biting your partner, but if they are fascinated with the vampires then a little nibbling might turn them on. Light biting on the neck or ear lobes have always been a romantic turn on for a lot of people. Maybe even putting on a black cape would create a romantic mood in your bedroom. Get tickets to the new Twilight movie getting ready to come and the give them to your partner in a little coffin box. You can take this vampire fetish to new heights. Maybe a little research on the movie would give you more insight to things that your partner might find romantic about it. Although this vampire fascination might not be your cup of tea, don't let it deter using it to improve the romance in your life.