Dance the night away.

I really don't hear many people talk about dancing anymore. Back when I was just out of high school in the late 80's people would make it a point to go out dancing. Now a days I don't hear any of these younger people talk about dancing. Dancing can be very romantic no matter where it is performed. Turn on some music at home and ask you partner to dance, I don't care if it is a slow dance or just getting up to flop around the house. Don't tell your partner but it is exercise also. I remember spending all night a the local bar dancing the night away. I would get up the next morning and be soar and I was in pretty good shape. Dancing in some cultures is part of the mating ritual and some believe that it is a form of foreplay, just watch the tango and tell me it is not. On the romantic side dancing gives you a chance to get close to your partner and get their blood pumping and we all know how good that is for romance. There are so many upsides to dancing that maybe it should be more a part of our culture. Enjoy the clip at the top of this post for a eighties band Van Halen and next time you get a chance, Dance the Night Away!

Sexy Phone Call

Something you can do to totally drive you partner wild is to give them a sexy call. I am not talking about calling them when they are away. I am talking about calling them when you both are home. Sometime when you are in opposite areas of the house dial up your sweety and tell them that if they meet you in the bedroom you have a surprise for them. Then rush to the bedroom strip naked and jump them when they enter the room. You could also use a text message to send them a list of what you want. The list could include things like, kiss my neck, take my underwear off using only your teeth, or just plain a simple, come f**k me. You might want to time them to see how fast they get to the other room. If you want spontaneity in your life this is one way to do it. Don't be shy and make sure not to do it during time when it would be impossible, such as during Thanksgiving Dinner.

Hear what our viewers feel is the most romantic scent.

Our readers input has given us what they feel is the most romantic scents. Ocean air and vanilla top our viewers lists, while Coconut and Floral scents came in at a tie for second. Pure and simple fresh air took third spot, making it seem to me that the simple smell of air is a very romantic scent. I must admit that the smell of the beach on vacation is a great memory for me. Which makes me wonder if the scents we like are tied to memories that we have had during our lifetime. Maybe you tie that scent with something you felt was wonderful and thusly want to smell it when you want to be romantic. What ever the case scents can definitely improve your romance and you life in general.

Update you pictures.

You know some people out there are very good at taking pictures all the time. Most all of us have a newer digital camera, that lets us delete any unwanted photo right away. We have no excuse for not getting new pictures all the time. When is the last time you took a picture of your sweet heart just to put in your billfold or to replace the one on your desk? Look around your house are the pictures hanging on the wall out dated? If you have a hair style you are embarrassed about then you need to take some new pictures to put up. It is so easy now a days you can print them out yourself by picking up some photo quality paper or you can upload them to a company like Kodak and have nice quality prints sent right to your door. Set up a theme for you pictures maybe take some on vacation every time to put up each year. We take pictures of our family eating and put them up around the very top of our kitchen. You could do any number of themes depending on your family and what room you are putting them up in. Don't let anyone be camera shy and make sure you get equal numbers of pictures of everyone. It isn't very fair if you can go into someones house and tell by the pictures who always is behind the camera. Don't just put up perfect pictures either. Use some of the silly and wacky ones you take it adds a lot more character and conversation to your house. Now if you don't have one go out and pick up a new digital camera and start taking pictures of everything you can think of.

Featured in the picture is the Nikon D40 SLR Camera, which I feel is a great camera.

Coconut Oil more then what you might think!

Coconut oil has long been known for its amazing smell and skin smoothing properties. It may also be used as a lubricant. Coconut oil is one of those products that seem to have so much up side. Since the smell of coconut can be a sexual stimulant it is a wonderful product to use in a massage. Not only will you get your partner loosened up with a massage they will be taking in a wonderful sexy smell. Then if the mood is right you also have a great lubricant for both of you handy. Always make sure there are not any extra product in your coconut oil and that it is natural and not an artificial version. Have you partner close their eyes and enjoy the smell and the after effects of Coconut Oil.

A simple little gift says so much.

How many times have you wanted to purchase something special for the one you love, only to realize that you have NO MONEY! Well you with some creative thinking you can get your lover a special surprise without having much money. Think about little things that mean a lot to the person. A single flower says a lot and doesn't cost very much at all you can purchase a carnation for under a dollar usually. Maybe you could pick up their favorite candy bar and put a bow on it, again you will spend less then a dollar and your partner will enjoy the candy as well as knowing the you were thinking about them. Coupons are another great way to show you care without spending any money. Give your love a coupon for a massage by you, or give them a "Get out of Laundry Jail" card that entitles them to not have to do any laundry for a week. Cook them a wonderful meal, pour them a relaxing bath, clean their car or rent the movie they have been wanting to see are great ideas that cost next to nothing to get. A real heart string tugger is to find some old pictures to remind them of times past and how great your memories are of those times. I will never accept the excuse that "I don't have any money" for avoiding being romantic, it is the person and thoughts that are romantic not the gifts.

Resist the urge to snap!

Have you ever gotten mad about something and snapped, then later felt really bad that you said something that maybe you shouldn't have. This is were you need to learn a little self control. When you are in a heated argument you always need to think what you say out. Usually that first thing that pops into your mind is something that might not be so easy to take back. Plus it usually is just a tear at the person and might not even have anything to do with the argument. When you get a little frustrated with you mate you need to take some time before you open your mouth. Once you say something, you won't be able to say sorry later and take it back. Many feelings have been hurt for a long time by someone just blurting something out in a fit of anger. Take your time and count if you need to these few seconds could save some hurtful feelings later.