What an Eggciting Day

Gentlemen here is your chance to be the actual Easter Bunny for your Honey. Go out and get some of those cheap plastic eggs from your local discount store. They might cost you a dollar at the most. Next rack your brain and think about the most thoughtfull gifts to put inside her eggs. Little love notes, sexy panties, jewlery, the candy they love, tickets to a show, are some ideas. Just make sure to make it personal. After filling all your eggs, now you must hide them all over your room. When your sweety gets back you have to tell her that easter bunny just left and she has to find all the eggs. After find the eggs and opening them she will appreciate her big old easter bunny.

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Start a Conversation!

We hear it all the time conversation is a key to any relationship. Well next time you are just hanging out with your partner start a conversation. This sounds really simple but the secret is to find a topic that is discussable not just "What cha doing". Go online, I suggest USA today online, you can get there by clicking on the title above. Pick something that interests you or you think might interest your partner. Then just bring it up in casual converstaion. You can do this at the dinner table or even in bed before you go to sleep. Good conversation is like good foreplay it enhances the mood and improves the total of the relationship. Just remember that opinions are different for everyone so understand that and make it a point to try to find out why your partner feels the way they do about a subject.

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Flower Day!

Make today flower day! It doesn't take a lot of effort or time. Just drop by your local department store or grocery store that has a floral department. Pick up a single flower and the next time you see your sweety, present her with the bloom. Don't drop a lot of money a simple carnation is usually pretty inexpensive. A word of caution, don't do this to often then it becomes expected and loses it's flair. A good rule of thumb is abount once every two months. Flowers for special occasions are excluded and should be of a much more substantial amount.

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Underwear is Fun to wear.

All right guys, time to go shopping and get some new undies. Yes you need to do this alone, so that way you can suprise your partner when you just happpen to be parading around in your new hot underwear. Believe me there is nothing sexy about a pair of underwear you have had for over a year! Now get out their and pick out some new underwear that will draw attention to you. (Click the title line to go to the Men's Underwear Store)

Short and Sweet

This morning before getting out of bed reach over a gently touch your partners back. Lightly caress their skin for a few minutes, the give them a gently kiss on the back of their neck. Follow this up by whispering I love you. Then get up and start your day. My bet is that you have made someone else day start out great!

A Thesaurus is not a prehistoric beast. It could be your best friend.

Gentlemen, here is an activity for you to try, which will surely get you rave reviews. It is a very simple task. All you need is a thesaurus. Make a list of the words you most often use to describe your partner. For example, every time she is getting ready to go out you might say "Honey, you look beautiful." I want you to take the word "beautiful" and look it up in your thesaurus. Find all the synonyms for beautiful. The next time your partner looks beautiful slip in some different words, which you have recently acquired from the thesaurus. Here are a few of my favorite words to replace beautiful: stunning, ravishing, picturesque, exquisite, and attractive.

Use this exercise on other words, which you use regularly. Not only will it increase your vocabulary, but it will make you look much more intelligent and interesting in your partner’s eyes and ears. Ladies, you can use this tactic, too. Just make sure your fellow knows what the words mean. You don’t want him to think you are calling him something bad. If you enjoy doing this, branch out and use it in your everyday life. Just pick a word and vow not to say it for a week. Replace it with another word that means the same thing.

Teach an old dog a new trick!

Sometimes we settle into the same old routine day in and day out. Well, it is time to teach that old dog a new trick. Routines are fine but every once in a while you need to branch out and learn or try something new. Our relationship with our partner is no different. Status quo is okay but throwing in some excitement from time to time adds a little flavor to the relationship. Now, this can be something radical or it can be something that just changes the way you look at things. Tailor this activity to meet your personal preferences and hers.

Your first step is go to a bookstore either online or an actual store and browse for a while. Check out the aisles of things you might have interest in or that your significant other has interest in. Look for books that are simple and straight forward on the topic, I like to start with the dummies series, you know like "Computers for Dummies." These books are simple in getting you started on the topic. The Dummies series actually helped me start blogging. If you don't find anything in those aisles, check out the self-help aisle. There is a broad range of topics, and this area of the store is usually quite busy. After searching and finding the perfect topic, simply buy the book and begin reading. Make sure you lover knows you’re reading it. Leave it lying around or read it in front of her. It is bound to strike up conversations. See if she is interested in learning about the topic also. If so, you can learn about it together. After all, that may help ensure you will put your new knowledge to work. I have learned so much from reading self-help books, and even though I don't necessarily use all the information from each book I take what appeals to me and put it into my life.

Now I know you might feel a little apprehensive about doing this. I enjoy actually going to the bookstore and looking at all the different topics, but if that makes you uncomfortable use an online store like Amazon. Amazon's site is very user friendly and they have every topic you can think of. If you’re still having some trouble getting into this activity, I have listed below some topics that have been of interest to me. Feel free to use them if you need to. Now teach that dog some new tricks, and add them to your relationship. Get out of your rut.

Here are some topics I find interesting that might spice up your relationship: exercise, yoga, food preparation, travel, tantric practices, photography, wine tasting, tandem biking, hiking, sexual practices or positions, massage, karma sutra, astronomy, dancing, trivia, the paranormal, classic movies, or anything you can share with someone else would be perfect.

With Romance you never reach the pinnacle you just have to keep climbing.