Seafood is it the Chicken of the sea.

We all know that seafood is good for us. Plus with as abundant as the sea is we should not really deplete the oceans as we have the other areas of the world. However, us humans are pretty good at not knowing what we are doing until it is almost to late. My point her however is how romantic seafood is. Oysters have always been known for their romantic boosting abilities. There is just something about seafood that is sexy to me. Lobster, crabs, fish, shrimp, to me say great night out and a romantic stream flowing down my pallet. Maybe it is because I live no where near the ocean, in the middle of the United States of America. So, I wonder if people that live on the coast view their seafood as such a romantic dish as I do? I would love to hear your views. Send them to me at thecouplesspot@gmail.com Here in the middle of the country chicken and beef are normal everyday meals to us so I wonder is seafood the chicken of the coast line or do they still hold seafood as a romantic special meal? Looking forward to hearing your feelings.

Love takes many forms.

When we think about love we think of kissing and physical touching. The last things that pop into our mind is the deep deep love we feel for each other. The love that will make us do amazing things when our partner most needs us. I have heard the stories of people picking up cars when their loved one was in danger and I believe that the heart can do amazing things. We have also been told to think with our heart which didn't hold much meaning to me until I listened to a podcast that talked about it. When we are conceived our heart is the the first thing to form in our bodies! then the brain starts to form so in theory you should always follow your heart because it beget all the other parts of your body. Plus how many times have you rethought your path and wished you would have done something different or you should have followed your heart. Love means so many different things it would be impossible to list them all, things like making sure your partners stay healthy, that they get things they want, we want them to experience lives treasures and the list goes on and on, love is infinite so much so that we are just able to touch the tip of it in our existence. Don't try to put love into a measurable unit because it is impossible the best thing you can do is let the love flow like a river. It will twist and turn but it will get to where you need it to.

Experience a new town.

Want to go on a romantic adventure? Well if your funds are limited like most people today, why not just go someplace that you have never been. Pick a near by town you have never been to maybe they might be having a festival or a special event going on that you can check out. You don't have to have an agenda. Just go explore the town, walk around downtown and experience how the community works. Find the local hot spots and pick a local restaurant for lunch to get a better feel for the town. Take your time and spend a good portion of the day taking in the sights, finding parks or trails, take in all you can and bank it for future references. Who knows you might find a place that you would like to move to at a future time. Make sure to take your camera and document your findings, heck make a scrap book of your adventures.

Birthday Surprise!

Today is my birthday and I love being the center of attention. From a romance position today I want the romance focused on me! Sounds a little selfish, but you only have one birthday a year and it is okay to wish for your desires. If it is your partner that is having the birthday you can use romance to make it their best birthday ever. There are lots of things you can do and if your short on cash romance can cost nothing but get better results then an expensive present. Make their birthday an all day romance event. Wake them up with sexy caresses, and if they are in the mood start with a little morning sex, offer to make them breakfast or take them out for breakfast to get their birthday morning started out right. If they have to go to work keep the fire burning by slipping notes in their pockets or sending them sexy text messages to let them know their birthday is going to be a hot time. You can then either make dinner, or go out, making sure to have some sort of cake. You can put a candle in a Twinkie if you like after all it's the thought that counts. Once home if you got them a present let them unwrap it. The it is time for them to unwrap their best present. Ladies find something sexy to wear, men slip into silky boxers and over to give them a massage. Tantalize but avoid the erogenous zones until later. Once you get them warmed up with the massage time to submit to their desires. Ask them what they want sexually and unless it is totally out of your comfort zone give it a try. All of these things will combine to form the best present they have ever had. Heck you can keep this up all night after all it is a celebration.

Talk sexy when you leave a voicemail for you sweetie.

When you call your partner and they don't answer do you just try to call them later? Well if you are then you are missing a chance to be a little flirty with them. Why not leave a sexy message or a seductive little blurb for them to enjoy later. Men deepen your voice and use words like Baby, Honey, or Sweet several times during the message. Slip in compliments, or feelings you have for your partner anything that will make them feel good. Ladies talk sexy and flirt a lot let you partner know how important they are to you. These little flirty sexy messages will go a long way with your partner. It might even brighten their day. You can even plan out a message and call when you know they will not be able to answer their phone. You can even steal their cell phone for a few minutes and call them up and leave a message while they can't find their phone.

Shaving, yes it is important to romance.

Shaving or the lack of it can be a deal breaker when you are trying to be romantic. Men, no body wants to rub their cheek up against sandpaper as they are cuddling. There are always some exceptions but for the most part if you do not have a full fledged beard then you need to make your face as soft as possible for close situations. Make your partner want to touch the soft skin of your face. Ladies don't think you are getting off easy on this one. Your legs need the same amount of attention for the romance to flow. Stubble on either sex is a real turn off. So if you want hands all over your body make it more attractive. Give them smooth sexy skin to feel not prickly porcupine needles. Believe me in that if you take the time to shave the touch will feel so much better to you and your partner.

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