Okay men it's our turn to find something sexy to wear.

Nothing thrills me more then my partner to wear something sexy to bed. One it makes her feel beautiful and it also makes me feel great. Knowing that my partner is thinking of looking sexy for me and her is a great turn on. For men however this is not a easy as it sounds. We are kinda limited in what we can wear to bed with our partner. We don't want to wear our normal everyday underwear but we don't want to look like a really bad stripper either. Where can a guy find nice sexy underwear that isn't on the edge of sleazy? I think the first thing you can do is buy some underpants that you only wear on special dates. Pick a day when you partner will see you in your unusually underpants and get them wondering, "where did he get those" Surprising them with something they have not seem before might just turn them on a little. If that doesn't work then pick up a different style of underpants that you don't normally wear. If you are a tighty whitey guy then pick up some silk boxers, or even boxer brief are nice. Get some it bright colors or with different patterns on them so they draw attention to your package. Let you partner touch and feel them as you are wearing them not only for yourself but for them also. hisroom.com carries several different types of underpants for you to choose from and you can click on the title of this post to be whisked away to that site.

Want to learn about female sexuality, then learn from the Queen

Deborah Sundahl is on of the pioneers in female sexuality. She has authored many books on the subject and is world wide renown for her work. A good deal of her works focuses on female ejaculation, her book "Female Ejaculation and the G Spot" is a great read for anyone interested in the subject. Her open demeanor and candid explanations are just what you need to break through and really find out about female sexuality. She also has produced several videos on the subject and has workshops around the country for those more interested. After reading "Female Ejaculation and the G Spot" my curiosity was peaked. I wanted to learn as much as I could about what I thought was a myth. My findings proved me wrong and I now believe in female ejaculation, I have not experienced it yet but I am currently working towards that goal. Go to the Amazon side bar and click on it to go to Amazon front page and purchase this book I am sure you will be glad you did.

How do our viewers relax after a hard day.

The results are in on our survey on how your relax after a hard day. We have a three way tie for the top spot. The answers have sex with partner, snuggle with partner, and read a book, split the top spots. I am glad that two of the answers involve physical contact because I feel that after a hard day the touch of your partner can make you troubles disappear if only for a short time. Next time you partner has a rough day tell them you feel for them and then put your hands on them, caress them, sooth them, it could make their bad day better.

Warm her up to get the most out of your sexual relationship.

Men we have a hard time understanding that we need to warm up a woman to get her in the mood for some loving that will last all night. We are simple creatures, as soon as we feel the urge we are ready, we have no warm up phase. Woman however need to be gently guided towards that feeling that just happens in us. We have to take our time and get the mood just right, which is hard for us because we are ready to pounce right now. Gentlemen let me put it to your this way the warming up is a way to make the love making last longer, by slowing down a bit the activities will last longer into the night. The more time you take the better she will be a receiving your advances. We all here the jokes about how quick men are and that their partners wish they could last longer, well let me tell you the sexual stamina isn't what will get it for you. The foreplay and the building of excitement will get your female companion to the point she need to be at. Don't be embarrassed if you need help in this matter, there are several books out on the subject of foreplay that can help you. The main thing is not to rush. Most of us are so excited when we get to engage in these activities that we dive right in, but believe me that is the worst thing you can do. Take your time, that feeling isn't going to go away especially if you push all the right buttons. Now go out and get your love making in shape and take your time.

It's about time to fire up the fireplace.

The air outside is starting to get cold and it is about time to fire up the fireplace. Nothing is more romantic then sitting with your lover snuggled up in front of a nice cosy fireplace. This is something you need to think about when purchasing a house. Especially if you are buying the house in the heat of the summer. In the summer you might not think a fireplace is that important. Let's look at the romance factor. Sipping wine in front of a fireplace snuggled up with you honey. The crackling sound the smell of the wood, being in your own house, things could get a little heated up and why shouldn't they. If you have a fireplace now is the time to make sure it is in good order. Get someone out to clean the chimney, clean out the opening and get all the old ashes out. That way when the time comes to build that first romantic fire of the season you or your love won't be disappointed.

Towels Glorious Towels

One thing you can never have enough of in a relationship is towels. Think I am kidding go to your linen closet right now and look at your towels. I bet you have some that you have had for a very long time. The ones that don’t really soak up any water but you keep them just incase you might run out of towels. Now get your butt in the car and go to the local discount store and pick up some nice big fluffy towels. You better get plenty or you and your family will be fighting over them. Towels are a comfort that we seem to take for granted, but nothing is nicer then getting that big comfortable towel around you after a nice hot shower. If you really want to get brownie points with your lover next time they are in the shower steal their towel and place it in the dryer, warm it up really good. Then when they scream at you for taking their towel present them with the warmest towel in the house. I can almost hear the sighs now. AHHHHHHHHHHHH.

The Guide to Getting it On!

Want to get some great reading material that will help improve your love life also. Then you need to look no farther then “The Guide To Getting It On” by Paul Joannides. This is a large book and covers everything that you can think about sex. The book covers everything from disabilities to attitudes towards different lifestyles. This book is amazing in the fact that you can actually understand the dialogue. Most books on sex I have read are so medical that you end up shaking your head wondering what they are saying. Not The Guide to Getting it on, it slaps you right in the face and doesn’t stop there it answers the questions you want answered. Paul Joannides does a wonderful job of mixing in humor to the book; this lets you relax a little as you read it. I first found out about the book through the Sex is Fun podcast and I still enjoy reading it today. I also think it is a great book to give your children as they hit puberty; I just gave a copy to my son the other day. The book takes no sides and just presents the information in an educational and entertaining way. It gives you insight into all types of life styles and covers important topics such as masturbation and safe sex. I can go on and on about this book I feel it should be in every household on the planet. Paul Joannides does a wonderful job of updating the book from time to time so just because you have a copy doesn’t mean you shouldn’t pick up another at some point and time. You can learn more at the publishers site http://goofyfootpress.com I believe this is one of those books that will be around forever. I know I will reread it several times and I am thinking about starting to give it to people as a wedding gift.

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