Showing posts with label levels. Show all posts
Showing posts with label levels. Show all posts

Tuesday, February 2, 2010

Valentine's Day Gift Idea - Sexy Robe and Slippers


Today we are going to start giving you ideas on things you can get your partner for Valentine's Day. A sexy robe and slippers can be a great idea for either male or a female partner. It tells the person that you are giving it to that you want to be more intimate with them. and if you are not currently living together it conveys the message that you would like to spend the night with them. Depending on the climate you live in, the robe you pick out should suit that climate. Colder climates might call for a warmer robe, like a big thick terry cloth one, or if your climate is warmer then a silk robe might be the way to go. If you want to add a little spice to the gift then pick out some silk boxers or a sexy bra and panty set to slip inside the robe. When they pull the robe out of the box then the other items fall onto the floor. No matter which type of robe you pick it will surely be a big hit.

Wednesday, November 18, 2009

Take your Vitamins


We all understand that vitamins are good for us. However, do you realize that they are important to a vital sex life also. Keeping health is essential for you to remain sexual active but some specific vitamins help directly with your sex life.

Vitamin A - Lack of this vitamin will decrease you sex hormones

Vitamin B-1 - This vitamin helps with your energy without it fatigue sets in and we all know what fatigue does for our sex lives.

Vitamin B-3 (Niacin) - Aids in the functions of sex hormones and your stress reducing hormones. and less stress means a better chance at making love.

Vitamin C - This vitamin helps with the absorption of iron into the blood this helps the blood carry oxygen and other needed things to the organs. With a good blood flow to the organs, you won't need that Viagra.

You can get most of these vitamins through a well balanced diet, or you can pick up the specific supplements at any place that sells vitamins.

Sunday, October 4, 2009

Ready to move your relationship on to the next level.


Okay your relationship to this point has be great, you enjoy your partner, you have got to have sex. Now however you want to know a little more, you want to see if you can move your relationship to a more deeper level or area. Maybe your a little nervous about trying to move things into the next level but their is no better time then the present. Here is what you do very secretly go out to your local sex toy shop and purchase an item to be used on or by your partner. Get items like vibrators, or a G spot stimulator for a woman for a guy in your life purchase a masturbation sleeve or a cock ring. You can get a butt plug for either person. Now take your item home and wrap it up put a note inside that says simply "Want Play". Leave it for you lover to find sometime when you are not home. Now comes the hard part, do not say a word about the present let them bring it up and tell you their feelings about it. If a couple of weeks go by and they don't say a word about it then you can mention it and see their reaction.

By doing this you tell them you are interested in using these type of items with them and it give them a chance to tell you how they feel about these items. Maybe they were just waiting for someone to break the ice.

Tuesday, May 19, 2009

Now let me pull a rabbit out of my hat..


Here is an idea to help the two of you decide what to do. One day get together and put all the things you like to do down on slips of paper. Make one pile for places to eat, one for things to do, and one for intimacy levels. The first pile of place to eat should be a complete list of places you have eaten in the past year. The second pile should be a complete list of thing you love to do weather together or not. The third pile is the intimacy level and it should include four different cards. The first should say low level intimacy, the second warm level intimacy, the third hot level intimacy and the fourth should say steamy intimacy.


Next find, or go purchase and item such as a hat to mix the papers up in. Now the next time either one of you says "What do you want to do" head over to your hats and draw one paper from each hat. First one will tell you where to go eat that night, the second will obviously tell you what you will be doing, and the third will tell you the intimacy level you will be having this night.


In the intimacy department I would like to clarify my feelings on the levels. You can set your own but hers is my take. Low level would be taking a walk holding hands, maybe a night out slow dancing, usually low levels of intimacy would take place in public. Warm level intimacy to me would be snuggling down on the couch, kissing, building a fire and enjoying some wine in front of it. Now with the hot level we would begin to incorporate sex into our equation. Hot level to me would include slowly making love to each other, romantic naked massages, and passionate kisses. Once we hit the steamy level their are no holds bard, to me this includes, role play, maybe a little bondage, oral sex, and of coarse trying some different positions. Again you can set your own levels. Just make sure they hit all levels of intimacy.


Now here is the kicker once you pick a paper out it cannot go back into the mix until the hat is empty. No exceptions, you have to experience all the levels to truly appreciate all of them.