Tis the night for roleplay.

Tonight is the night dust off all your costumes and get into a little role play. Be a sexy devil or a horny vampire but whatever it is make sure you add intimacy into it. Heck you can even be the ghost with an erection. Whatever makes you Halloween special is what you need to do. Halloween can be one of the most sexy holidays of the year if you enjoy dressing up. So through your doubt to the wind and get sexy this Halloween.

Skip the treats and go right for the tricks!!!!

Halloween doesn't have to be only for children. Adults can enjoy the days just as much but forget about the candy. Halloween is a great time to make love. All the costumes and spooky things that go on can really be exciting. Bringing that excitement into your bedroom is par of the fun for adults. Pick our costumes and dress and act the parts in your love making. Be Indians, or people from ancient Rome, the possibilities are endless. Have fun with it and use it to bring some newness into your sex life. Plus it is much better for you then the candy the kids get.

Think as your lover would think.

A wonderful way to express your love for your partner is to think as they think. The longer you are with your partner the more and more you start to understand how they think. Once you hit this point of understanding your partner preferences you can start getting a jump on things that will show them how much you love them. For example if you know after a hard day your partner would like to go out to dinner, be waiting when they get home and suggest going out to dinner before they can open their mouth to say it. Maybe your partner likes to go on walks on warm summer days. Well then watch the forecast and when you see a warm sunny day coming up bring up a walk early in the morning. Getting a jump on these things before you partner can suggest them will make them feel really special. There are so many of these little thing that can help your relationship hit new highs. Myself for example enjoy making love when it is raining outside. So if my partner wanted to really make me feel special on a rainy day she would get me into our bedroom during the hardest part of the rain and start being intimate with me.

Frosty days

Here in the midwest the mornings are starting to become colder and colder as autumn is if full swing. It is amazing that sometimes you might wake up with frost on the ground and then have a wonderful warm day in the afternoon. I like to call this weather, shorts and sweatshirt weather. Whatever you call it these days are wonderful for spending a little extra time in bed snuggling and touching. It is amazing how warm it stays under your covers with two bodies heating it up. As I mentioned earlier take a little extra time and enjoy this warmth and give your partner a little extra touching. Autumn days are great for making love and snuggling down to watch good movies. Then get up and enjoy the warmer part of the day. Get your sweatshirt and shorts out and enjoy this up and down bouncing of the weather for soon it will just be cold all the time. At least here in the midwest.

Start listing all the reasons you are happy.

Take out a notebook and a pencil and start writing down all the things that make you happy. Get down and write several easy and simple things that make you happy. Start out simple and then as you get going you will pick up speed soon you will have so many things down you will start looking at your life differently and seeing the good in your life will replace all the negative that you have. Make this a practice you keep not only when you feel down but when you are up also. Keep a note book and do this every night before you go to bed or when you get up in the morning. Heck any time something hits you write it down. Soon you will have a arsenal of feel good things at your disposal.

Snuggle down in bed with your technology and your lover.

Today it is so easy to get your technology where you want it. So why not spend the time using it snuggled up with your partner in a comfy spot. Say you both crash out on the bed of find a chair big enough for both of you to use at the same time. Doing this will give you time to connect while you are close to each other. Then you can always put the electronics aside and attend to each other. Or you can huddle together and watch something on youtube or check out an interesting web site together. Either way you are together and touching and not being apart while you are using the technology we have at our finger tips.

Use your couples energy.

We are all energy and the special thing about being a couple in love is that you get to combine your energy to use it in special ways. We have heard the expression that two heads are better than one. Well two energies focused on the same idea are double the power. You can manifest the things in your life much quicker when two forces are working and striving for that goal. Sit down together and decide what you want out of life and then both of your focus on that want. See how much easier it is to get their with the couples energy.

Move if you get a chance.

One thing that can be a wonderful romantic journey is for you and your partner to move! Pick up and move to a completely different city. Take new jobs, find a new place to live and for a while it will just be the two of you relying on each other. This is how wonderful relationship get made. It might not be 100% accurate but you are going to build a tighter bond with that special someone as you experience a new environment together. That sense of adventure will fill you both as you will be nervous and excited at the same time. The struggles of learning a new place can be swept away by falling into each others arms at the end of the day.

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Quite eating fast food and save the money for date nights.

Here in America most of us eat way to much fast food. It is easy and it tastes good but the terrible part is that it is expensive and is not at all healthy. Why don't the two of you as a couple make an effort to avoid it altogether. Make a commitment that when every you feel like grabbing a burger the both of you remain strong and make a grilled cheese or turkey sandwich at home. Then the money you would have spent eating something bad for you and put it in a jar marked, "Date Night" Continue doing this until you have enough in the jar to experience your favorite activity together. Heck you could even save for a trip if you are strong enough. Make a penalty also so that if you do go out and eat fast food you have to replace the money you spend from your jar. You will soon start thinking about just grabbing fast food all together. Not only will your body thank you but your can both thank each other when you are sitting on the beach somewhere special.

Tell me something special.

A nice gesture to do when you really want someone to know how much you care about them is to tell them something you have never told anyone. Tell them your secret no matter how silly or scary it is. Tell them you had a crush on the Fonz or that you stole a pack of gum when your were 8 years old. Something that you have never told anyone will really make your partner understand how important they are to you. Lay it on the line and see where they take it. You might get one back in return and if that is the case this might be the starting of a special thing.

Forget porn read erotica together.

I think a very exciting thing to do is to read erotica together. Unlike porn erotica usually has some form of plot and it makes you use your imagination to see sexy images in your mind. Porn forces you to watch what the director or author wants you to see. However erotica makes your mind digest the words and create it's own image. This might just be me but when I watch porn sometimes I feel dirty afterwards like I am a peeping tom but with erotica I feel like I am part of the action. Erotica lets me be the character instead of a bystander. One of my favorite erotica writers is Zob click on the link below to check out some of his works and get your erotica on with your partner.

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love yourself first!

An interesting concept that has taken me a while to understand is now an important fact in my life. To love you have to love yourself first. For years I have always thought that my love for my partner is the most important thing. However you cannot give your love away if it is not in you to begin with. I am not say that you need to do things differently in the way you treat your partner but you need to treat yourself differently. Make you that you are getting the things to make your happy and then your happiness will spread to your partner. They will start picking up on your happiness and if they truly love you then, they will feel more love towards you and you can share you love easily with them. It is a circle and once you understand it your love will really start to pick up speed.

Breast Cancer Awareness Month!

Do your part to promote Breast Cancer Awareness Month. Cancer affects so many people and we can do our part to help out in this area. Donate, do self checks and spread the word. The more people we get talking about it the more we will help. We have created a sexy challenge to help out also so check it out at the link below and save the TA TA's.

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