Use your couples energy.

We are all energy and the special thing about being a couple in love is that you get to combine your energy to use it in special ways. We have heard the expression that two heads are better than one. Well two energies focused on the same idea are double the power. You can manifest the things in your life much quicker when two forces are working and striving for that goal. Sit down together and decide what you want out of life and then both of your focus on that want. See how much easier it is to get their with the couples energy.

Move if you get a chance.

One thing that can be a wonderful romantic journey is for you and your partner to move! Pick up and move to a completely different city. Take new jobs, find a new place to live and for a while it will just be the two of you relying on each other. This is how wonderful relationship get made. It might not be 100% accurate but you are going to build a tighter bond with that special someone as you experience a new environment together. That sense of adventure will fill you both as you will be nervous and excited at the same time. The struggles of learning a new place can be swept away by falling into each others arms at the end of the day.

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Quite eating fast food and save the money for date nights.

Here in America most of us eat way to much fast food. It is easy and it tastes good but the terrible part is that it is expensive and is not at all healthy. Why don't the two of you as a couple make an effort to avoid it altogether. Make a commitment that when every you feel like grabbing a burger the both of you remain strong and make a grilled cheese or turkey sandwich at home. Then the money you would have spent eating something bad for you and put it in a jar marked, "Date Night" Continue doing this until you have enough in the jar to experience your favorite activity together. Heck you could even save for a trip if you are strong enough. Make a penalty also so that if you do go out and eat fast food you have to replace the money you spend from your jar. You will soon start thinking about just grabbing fast food all together. Not only will your body thank you but your can both thank each other when you are sitting on the beach somewhere special.

Tell me something special.

A nice gesture to do when you really want someone to know how much you care about them is to tell them something you have never told anyone. Tell them your secret no matter how silly or scary it is. Tell them you had a crush on the Fonz or that you stole a pack of gum when your were 8 years old. Something that you have never told anyone will really make your partner understand how important they are to you. Lay it on the line and see where they take it. You might get one back in return and if that is the case this might be the starting of a special thing.

Forget porn read erotica together.

I think a very exciting thing to do is to read erotica together. Unlike porn erotica usually has some form of plot and it makes you use your imagination to see sexy images in your mind. Porn forces you to watch what the director or author wants you to see. However erotica makes your mind digest the words and create it's own image. This might just be me but when I watch porn sometimes I feel dirty afterwards like I am a peeping tom but with erotica I feel like I am part of the action. Erotica lets me be the character instead of a bystander. One of my favorite erotica writers is Zob click on the link below to check out some of his works and get your erotica on with your partner.

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love yourself first!

An interesting concept that has taken me a while to understand is now an important fact in my life. To love you have to love yourself first. For years I have always thought that my love for my partner is the most important thing. However you cannot give your love away if it is not in you to begin with. I am not say that you need to do things differently in the way you treat your partner but you need to treat yourself differently. Make you that you are getting the things to make your happy and then your happiness will spread to your partner. They will start picking up on your happiness and if they truly love you then, they will feel more love towards you and you can share you love easily with them. It is a circle and once you understand it your love will really start to pick up speed.