Saturday, November 7, 2009

These are some of my most romantic things.


In response to our question of the most romantic things to do, we got just votes on three of our suggestions all getting the same amount of votes were Bubble Bath, Walk on the Beach and Weekend Getaways. All threes are very romantic and should make anyone happy to do. We all know that anything can be romantic if you are with the right person, so don’t hold yourself to what you read here. Find your own romantic thing and let us know all about it. You can email your ideas to romanticantics@gmail.com

Friday, November 6, 2009

The Health Benefits of Romance


When romance is a part of your daily life, it has a calming effect that help benefit your overall health, not to mention your relationship. Health and relationships seem to go hand in hand. When things are going well in your relationship it seems to help your overall health. The reasons for this can be different in each and every relationship, but there do seem to be some similarities. For starters you eliminate some of the big stress causers in you life. Being at odds with your partner over relationship concerns can really make you physically ill. Ask someone that is having relationship problems and you will hear things like "My stomach just aches", "I have such a headache" or even "My heart is breaking" When your life is in shambles you health usually follows suit, because you are not at your best to fight off the sickness. Most people without romance in their lives tend not to work out as much or worry about what they are eating. Heck you lucky if they eat at all, when things are at their worst. When the romance fails we tend to take a lesser stance on taking care of ourselves. Keeping your romance strong can reverse all the things we have talked about earlier, because we are doing it for the relationship as well as ourselves. We want to take care of ourselves because we feel good in the relationship we are in and we don't want to lose that. Not that you can control the level of romance in your relationship but you can put your best forward. Usually if you put the work into the relationship you will get the romance out of it.

Thursday, November 5, 2009

Join a League!


Relationships are funny things especially at the start. You have to feel your way around to see when and where to take big steps. Things like moving in together or purchasing large items are huge steps as far as relationships go. Maybe you aren't ready for that type of big step yet, what can you do to make a commetment but not dive head first into this realtionship. My suggestion is to join some sort of league. Be it bowling, gold, darts, softball, etc. there are endless possibilities. Now you might wonder why this is reat for you relationship, and the reason is that it shows you are looking at your relationship as a continueing thing. You are showing that you are looking towards the future with this person, without making a hard to reverse step. If things don't work out it is usually not that difficult to get out of one of these leagues. Another great benifit to joining leagues for a couple is you meet other out going couples that you might be able to become friends with. Couples that become friends are a great addition to your relationship as you will have others to enjoy things like cookouts, parties or eveneings out with. The friends you bring into your relationship at the start are either his or hers, but these new friends are "OUR" friends and are not partial to either of you. This can be a big help if you might have troubles down the line. Look through your local paper and the next time you see an advertisement asking for league members ask your partner if they would like to join, it might just be great for your relationship.

Wednesday, November 4, 2009

Singing in the shower!


Nothing can brighten you morning then cutting loose with a great song in the shower. Not only will this help you get your day off to a good start but it might just help anyone that hears you. Okay so maybe your not the best singer, but hearing you in a good mood and having fun will entice others to do the same thing. Think of the smiles you will put on your partners face as they hear you tyring to sing a song in the shower. It might just make their day. By singing you create a magic wonderful place in the shower and who knows maybe you might just get some company to sing a duet with you. Some great songs for singing in the shower are "Splish Splash", "I love to feel the rain in the summer time", and "Singing in the rain" just to mention a few.

Tuesday, November 3, 2009

Make your kisses refreshing!


The thing people complain most about with kissing is bad breath. They say it is one of the biggest turn offs when kissing someone, even somebody they have been in a relationship with for a long time. Well it is an easy fix to correct this and with a little practice you won't have to worry about it ever again. There are several things on the market to help you in your quest for kissable breath. Items such as gum, breath mints, mouthwash, and the list goes on and on. Now all you have to do is pick which one of them you prefer and decide which one works the best. Don't forget to pick a flavor your partner enjoys also. Spearmint gum is one of my favorites, with cinnamon a close second. You have a great deal of flavors to choose from and for added effects I suggest picking a different one as many times as you can. Let your partner wonder what kind of kiss they will be getting today, it might just make them kiss you more often. While brushing your teeth is the best defense against bad breath, these other items will help when you can whip out your toothbrush and start cleaning. This can even be more exciting if your going for a little more passionate kissing. Flavors such as cinnamon, and wintergreen can give a little tingle if you happen to use your tongue as well. With all this said make sure to have these items on you all the time because at any given time your lips might be called to duty and you don't what nasty breath to slow things down.

Monday, November 2, 2009

Dance the night away.


I really don't hear many people talk about dancing anymore. Back when I was just out of high school in the late 80's people would make it a point to go out dancing. Now a days I don't hear any of these younger people talk about dancing. Dancing can be very romantic no matter where it is performed. Turn on some music at home and ask you partner to dance, I don't care if it is a slow dance or just getting up to flop around the house. Don't tell your partner but it is exercise also. I remember spending all night a the local bar dancing the night away. I would get up the next morning and be soar and I was in pretty good shape. Dancing in some cultures is part of the mating ritual and some believe that it is a form of foreplay, just watch the tango and tell me it is not. On the romantic side dancing gives you a chance to get close to your partner and get their blood pumping and we all know how good that is for romance. There are so many upsides to dancing that maybe it should be more a part of our culture. Enjoy the clip at the top of this post for a eighties band Van Halen and next time you get a chance, Dance the Night Away!

Sunday, November 1, 2009

Sexy Phone Call


Something you can do to totally drive you partner wild is to give them a sexy call. I am not talking about calling them when they are away. I am talking about calling them when you both are home. Sometime when you are in opposite areas of the house dial up your sweety and tell them that if they meet you in the bedroom you have a surprise for them. Then rush to the bedroom strip naked and jump them when they enter the room. You could also use a text message to send them a list of what you want. The list could include things like, kiss my neck, take my underwear off using only your teeth, or just plain a simple, come f**k me. You might want to time them to see how fast they get to the other room. If you want spontaneity in your life this is one way to do it. Don't be shy and make sure not to do it during time when it would be impossible, such as during Thanksgiving Dinner.