The Feet

We all know how romantic a foot rub can be and a massage on the feet can send people into an almost orgasmic state. This makes me wonder why we don't pay more attention to our partners feet during other times. We spend most of our waking hours standing on our feet and yet we don't give them the romance they need unless we are using it a means of foreplay. First things first, since we spend so much time on our feet make sure you partner or lover has great shoes. Nothing can make your feet hurt worse then cheap shoes that don't give you the cushion you need. After making sure their shoes are proper, get them off their feet as much as possible. If your partner spends all day on their feet at work don't expect them to spend the night walking around the mall. Find an activity where you can sit down and relax their feet. Rent a movie and prop up on the couch or catch the football game in the same manner. Purchase a nice scrub brush for the shower to brush both of your feet with. Nothing feels better then giving your feet the attention they deserve. By doing all these romantic things for your partners feet, then next time you get time to be more romantic you won't have to focus so much on their feet to start with.

Does Time stop when you kiss?

One way to tell for sure that you are in love is the feeling of time when you kiss that special someone. Does it seem like time stands still? Are you so caught up in the moment that it doesn't matter how long you have been kissing. Can you feel his/her lips as it they were the only think on earth? If you answer yes to most of these question you are surely having some sort of feelings about this person. Now it might not be love but it is a beginning. If you are not getting these feelings then things might not be right. It might be the timing of the kiss, like are you busy when it takes place or are you in a crowded mall. These situations might make it tough to see how your feelings are really doing. However if you are alone and are not getting these feelings then maybe just maybe that spark might not be there. Do you look into each others eyes after a passionate kiss, that is usually a tell, tale sign of the feelings of the other person.

Abundance Romance

If you are familiar with the law of attraction or the secret for that matter we all here about abundance and how the universe will give you what you ask for. Why don't we ask for romance? Abundance romance at that, can we get enough romance in our lives? Now when you ask the universe for what you want make sure to include romance in the equation. Nothing makes our lives more fun and enjoyable then feeling that we are the object of someones effection. Romance makes us do silly thing and makes us feel years younger then we are. It gets our blood pumping and reminds us why we fall in love. Abundant romance is necessary for you life and you health so ask for some today.

Now you also have to put romance into the universe so start thinking now of ways you can be more romantic. Little things are fine and they grow into big things so start small and soon you will be putting romance all over the place.

Don't be blinded by new relationship energy!

Sometimes we are so excited with a new relationship that we can be blinded to things that might be signs the relationship won't work out. You might think that this is a little out of context for a romance site. We are here to bring romance into relationships and part of that starts with understanding the relationship from the start. New relationship are exciting but so much so that sometimes we overlook things that will really bug us later in the relationship. You need to stop and think about things while you are away from this new person. Try to see into the future with their drinking make a difference later in your relationship. Maybe they have a drug habit or maybe they just ask for you to do things that make you feel a little uncomfortable. Yes trying new things are a great way to branch out but thing about the future. Can you put up with this things that seem okay at the start of a relationship. Another thing you need to think about is are you doing things at the start of this relationship that you might not do later down the road? Are you trying to hard to make this person feel the same energy you are feeling right now? Are you being yourself? New relationship energy is great and can make you feel better then you have in a while, just make sure it isn't blinding you to the facts that are right in front of your face. I'm not trying to scare you off of a relationship you have just entered into, but wouldn't it be better to be a little more cautious at the beginning of the relationship. If the relationship is right it will grow and build around the problems, you don't want to ignore the problems.

Festival Time

It's that time of year where festivals are all over the place. This is a great romantic weekend get away that give you time to see some neat things yet allows you to walk and talk the day away. Get up early drive to your festival and enjoy the day. Browsing through the booths and partaking of the local food and flavors it not only romantic, but can also save you big money. Finding treasures or something special to mark your relationship is a great thing to look for. You can spend a little or a lot depending on your mood but the air is clean you can walk hand in hand and enjoy each other company while you weave in and our of the festival.

Met Some where out of your normal routine.

You know that as your relationship progresses you get into a habit of where you go and how you get there. Especially if you live together, you most likely ride together to where ever you are going. Here is a suggestion to maybe get your out of your normal routine. Meet some where different be it for lunch or a drink or maybe even just a little sexual tension relief. Think about it trying to find your partner in a crowded room or searching for them across a bar full of people. Not only does this take you back to the feelings you had during the first few dates the two of you had, but it also adds a little mystery to your relationship. The people in the place don't know the two of you so for all they know you are meeting for the first time. Play it up a little and let the people hear you (remember they don't know you). Have fun with this and think about how much we take for granted our partner being right were we need them all the time. Want to make it really exciting get a hotel room and give your partner the key at the restaurant or bar you meet at then just walk away. This gives you a chance to flirt a little with your partner, and we don't do enough of that when we are in a committed relationship. Make your plans today and get out there and meet your partner like it was the first time, see how excited you get, and how it gets your blood pumping again.

Keeping Romance Hot

I think most everyone knows that romance is about making your partner feel special. There are several ways to do that, be it bringing home flowers, surprising them with a night out, or maybe even taking a trip. We need to also keep romance alive in our bedrooms. Maybe that wasn't a good statement as some of you might be having intimacy outside of the bedroom. To be truly romantic in your love life you have to make your partner feel like you think they are special. Sex is one of the easiest ways to accomplish this feat. For starters put your focus of foreplay on your partner, make their sensation the best it can be. Use different items and toys to bring their excitement level to the top. Speak to them during your activities, tell them how much you love them and how great of lover they are. This little things are a big turn on for most people. You might be wondering about now when is it your turn to be the center of sexual attention. Well you can't force someone to act this way, but if your partner truly loves you then the both of you will find ways to take turns pleasing the other person. I suggest however making your partner the total focus once in a while, meet only their needs and see what happens. Now everyone deserves a chance at this and if tonight is your turn to lay back and enjoy, you need to make plans to reciprocate the actions.