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Looking for someone to help you with a problem or question about your relationship. Well I am willing to offer my opinion on your subject. Drop me a line and I will privately get back with you. Maybe I can shed some light on something you had not thought about. If I can help, I will.

Rob

Girls on Film (Boys too)

Do you think your partner is beautiful? I would venture to say most of you do. So make her feel beautiful as her if you can take some pictures of her/him. Today's cameras being digital make it easy to take lots of pictures. You don't have to send them out to get them developed and you can print them out on your standard computer, or you can download them to digital devices. You can store your pictures on your computer, phone, ipod, or another device with storage capability.

Now you have no excuses go out and take as many pictures of your partner as you camera will hold. Then let them help you pick out the best ones. Believe me this is a great idea because you don't want a picture of your partner on you phone and it be one that they think is ugly. Have them do a little posing, get a little silly, pictures with people laughing are always better then trying smile on your own.

Since your pictures are digital and no one else will see them. You can even take some pictures that are a little more provocative if you both are willing. The point being you can take some great pictures of you partner to use as keep sakes for the long haul. If you have a tripod and a timer on your camera you can even take pictures of the two of you together. Those are always nice to have around. So get to clicking.

Today is Favorite Lists Day

Today is favorite lists day. Huh? Yes today I want you to spend some time with your partner and find out their favorites. Start with easy ones like what are you favorite movies of all time. Take turns answering and alternate who asks the question and who begins their list. It's fun and you can branch out into several subjects. One thing this makes you do is remember back to other times and maybe even some great times you have spent together. Some more suggestions might be Where are your favorite places to visit, who is your favorite actor or actress, what are your favorite sports, etc. You can even personalize this list for you two. You could ask, "What are your five favorite memories of things we've done?" or "What are your favorite places for me to touch your body?" As you do this activity, make mental notes. Those notes might come in handy later. Say for instance you are looking for a present for you partner. You might be able to find one of the movies on their favorite list. Not only will it be a great present, but they will be more amazed that you remembered. If you are wondering my favorite movies are anything with Adam Sandler in them, but my favorite of them is Billy Madison.

The Love Check

You know one of the biggest things couples fight about is money. Well I want you to go up and either steal a check out of your checkbook or use one the you have extra. I want you to write it out for love. Yes, you heard me right! I want you to put your partners name on it as the receiver. Now fill in the rest of the check. In the amount box put love, kisses, hugs, or whatever message you want to sent to your partner. Little drawn hearts are nice or X's and O's work well to. Then write it out just as you would a regular check. Sign your name and add a memo, something like "Making sure Jim knows I love him" Next time you see your partner give them the check and tell them this is what I owe you. On a side note you could even mail the check to them, so that they get it when your not around.

Just make sure you make note of the check your removed. That way, come time to balance the checkbook you know what it was used for.

Wine a little today!!

Make today wine day.  Go out and purchase a bottle of your partners favorite wine and then surprise them with it when they get home.  If you partner doesn't like wine maybe champagne will do.  Don't get beer let's make this a special day.  Since we are going with a little more class you might try to get special wine glasses also.  Plastic cups with graphics on them are not quite as romantic as a nice steemwear glass.  If your partners doesn't like alcohol then you can find a non alcoholic juice or beverage in a bottle that looks like wine.  Toast to each other and make sure to tell your partner how much they mean to you.

Lawn Chairs and Boat Drinks

It's time to enjoy summer.  So lets break out the lawn chairs and boat drinks.  You can enjoy the sun and spend some time together no matter where you live.  If you live in the city take your island paradise up to the roof of your building and hang out suntanning and drinking.  Just don't get to close to the edge of the building.  If you live in the secluded country you can just find a spot where the sun is available and pitch your little set up there.  If you way out in the boondocks you could even remove you suits for an all over tan.  Make sure to use sunscreen, because burn genitals are not fun or fashionable.  Make up a pitcher of your favorite beverage and just sit and sun.  Enjoy the sun, the booze, and that wonderful person sitting beside you!

Star Trek (Click here to go to the earth sky website - To find out whats going on in the heavins tonight)

Here is a quickie that will be a wonderful event between you and your partner. Find some cushions, bean bag chairs, or even a blanket, and on the next clear warm summer night head outside. Arrange whatever sitting or laying device you have brought out and position it so that you can gaze skywards without straining your neck. Also, make sure that in this position you can touch or hold your partner. Then simply relax and enjoy the greatest light show in the universe. This is a great stress reliever also as it seems to put some perspective into your life. You could even brush up a little on your astronomy or even purchase a book showing the constellations so that you and your partner can enjoy trying to point them out to each other. If you have a quiet back yard, you might even bring out a little mood music or even just a taping of a waterfall or rain. But, first and foremost relax, take your time and enjoy searching the cosmos with your love.

Not a night person? You can do the same thing during a warm summer day, but instead of stars use clouds. Point out clouds and what their shapes look like to you, and then see what your partner sees in the same cloud. It is quite interesting to see the differences in your ideas. Don't be afraid to involve your children in this too. I love to hear the perspective of a young child, and this will bring you closer as a family, which will bring you closer as a couple.