Tell me something special.

A nice gesture to do when you really want someone to know how much you care about them is to tell them something you have never told anyone. Tell them your secret no matter how silly or scary it is. Tell them you had a crush on the Fonz or that you stole a pack of gum when your were 8 years old. Something that you have never told anyone will really make your partner understand how important they are to you. Lay it on the line and see where they take it. You might get one back in return and if that is the case this might be the starting of a special thing.

Forget porn read erotica together.

I think a very exciting thing to do is to read erotica together. Unlike porn erotica usually has some form of plot and it makes you use your imagination to see sexy images in your mind. Porn forces you to watch what the director or author wants you to see. However erotica makes your mind digest the words and create it's own image. This might just be me but when I watch porn sometimes I feel dirty afterwards like I am a peeping tom but with erotica I feel like I am part of the action. Erotica lets me be the character instead of a bystander. One of my favorite erotica writers is Zob click on the link below to check out some of his works and get your erotica on with your partner.

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love yourself first!

An interesting concept that has taken me a while to understand is now an important fact in my life. To love you have to love yourself first. For years I have always thought that my love for my partner is the most important thing. However you cannot give your love away if it is not in you to begin with. I am not say that you need to do things differently in the way you treat your partner but you need to treat yourself differently. Make you that you are getting the things to make your happy and then your happiness will spread to your partner. They will start picking up on your happiness and if they truly love you then, they will feel more love towards you and you can share you love easily with them. It is a circle and once you understand it your love will really start to pick up speed.

Breast Cancer Awareness Month!

Do your part to promote Breast Cancer Awareness Month. Cancer affects so many people and we can do our part to help out in this area. Donate, do self checks and spread the word. The more people we get talking about it the more we will help. We have created a sexy challenge to help out also so check it out at the link below and save the TA TA's.

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Romance is in your hands.

I don't want to hear that you can't think about anything romantic to do for your partner. For starters start looking over these blog entries and pick one. Even if you don't do that just do something special for your partner that is where the love comes from. Do one of their normal chores or help out a little extra folding the clothes. The most simple gestures can be the most romantic ones of all. Don't shoot for the moon because it it a long way away, aim for your lover they are a lot closer.

The drums have it.

Next time it is time to get a little frisky try to find a drum beat that is a little tribal. Pick out something from Hawaii or Africa and let your imagination run wild while you enjoy the rhythmic beat of the drums and let your love making get in tune with the beats. You might just find it a spiritual practice in itself.

Set up a special email account.

Today with the ease of getting an email account you can quickly set up a special one. this email account will be a direct link between the two of you. You will only use this account to send special messages back and froth between the two of you. Treat it like a love line and only send messages of love and desire. Don't use this account to ask whats for supper or how are the kids. This email account is for you both to express your deepest love and passion for each other. Don't abuse this account but at least every three days drop a note to your love into it. You soon will find yourself anxiously checking your account to see how much your partner loves you.