Tuesday, September 7, 2010

Experience small towns.


Another great and fun thing to do is to get out and experience small towns. Not just drive through them get out and walk around their main drags. Get to feel how they feel as they you walk and talk with them. Experience the small places to eat and the local shopping. Don't under estimate the feels of welcome that a small town has to offer. When picking a place you might look for towns with a college and enjoy their campus also. This is a great way to get to know the lay of the land and maybe find some new places you might want to return to some day. Look for walking trails the weave through the city and get you places out of the way. Then enjoy all the sights hand in hand and heart in heart.

Monday, September 6, 2010

Any time is a good time for a drive.


Long drives in the country are amazing and a great way for couples to communicate. Don't have a specific place picked out just get out and drive. If you are nervous about getting lost then take your GPS. Don't use the GPS unit until ready to go home. Fill your tank up and just head out making turns and looking for interesting things to do or see. Find a place to pull off and talk or take in some beautiful scenery while holding each other in your arms. Some of the most amazing times you will ever have are simply anyplace the two of you can be alone. So start seeking out these places on these wonderful drives.

Sunday, September 5, 2010

Great Romantic Comedy - The Wedding Singer


One of the best movies to watch for a good snuggle up good time is The Wedding Singer. Featuring Adam Sandler and Drew Berrymore. The 80's music kicks butt and the comedy is hilarious. The message of love hits hard in this movie as two star crossed lovers shake off bad relationships to find the one that truly is meant to be. If you lived through the eighties you will enjoy the movie just for all the funny references it make to that time frame. Adam Sandler drives home the music and the comedy while Drew Berrymore adds the cute and sexy parts to make this romantic comedy one of the best. The cameo by Billy Idol is really bad but if you loved the Rebel Yell King then it makes it okay.

Friday, September 3, 2010

text each other while sitting next to each other.


A fun thing to do and open up lines of communication is to text each other while sitting next to each other. Be a little flirty and don't use spoken words. Go back and forth and get a racy little conversation started. Before you know it you both will be dropping your phones and attacking each other. Plus it makes you feel young. Start learning the abbreviations now so you can save time later for this fun activity.

Thursday, September 2, 2010

Celebrate the little things.


Celebrations are great but you don't always have to wait for a holiday or birthday to begin the celebration. Make a point to show encouragement for the little things like getting a new job or even a good grade on a test. Heck you can even go as far as to celebrate the renewal of your drivers licence. Make a production of these little things to show your partner that everything they do is important to you. Express your feeling for them with streamers, cakes, or balloons. Not only will they feel wonderful because of your love but you will feel special also.

Wednesday, September 1, 2010

Remember you love is not one of your buddies.


This post is for the guys. As much as you want your special person in your life to be not only your love but your best friend you have to draw some lines. You cannot expect your love to act like one of your buddies during the football game. Don't expect them to enjoy the same rituals you do with the buds. Things like flatulence and belching are not the most fun things for you partner to do in public. Yes, everyone does them but not in the form of a contest or joke to play on each other. Don't think you can chest bump your love as a touchdown is scored, your loves chest is for caressing not to knock them onto the floor. As much as you want you love to be your best friend you can't expect them to act like your friends. After all you don't want to have sex with the guys you go to the game with do you?

Tuesday, August 31, 2010

Friction is bad.


One thing that is important to avoid in a relationship is friction. Friction causes things to run hot in a bad way. Friction is the energy that is expelled when two forces rub against each other. That can be in an argument or in the contact between your skin. Oil up your relationship to avoid friction. Obviously oiling up your bodies when they are going to be in contact for a long time is a wonderful feeling. Sliding against each other instead of dragging against the other person skin is so much better. Lubrication is a important part of intimacy and lubrication in your everyday life is important also. Think of ways to make your life smoother. Maybe getting up early to get your shower done so you are out of the way in the morning. Starting your partners car on a cold morning or just making them a wonderful dinner are great ways to add lubrication to your relationship. When you are looking for ways to lubricate your relationship look for those things your partner enjoys and express interest in their desires and you should receive the same treatment back. That is how a well oiled relationship runs and avoids problems.