Shopping together can be fun.

Most couples hate going shopping together. Can you see the images of one partner holding the bags while the other one tries on a hundred different outfits. Maybe its the other way around and one partner wants to go to the power tool store and spends hours looking a drills. The good thing about shopping is it can give the two of you some time out together. You usually have to have lunch out which is a good thing for the two of you to share. My suggestion for the other stuff that drives us nuts is to set time limits before you enter a store set a time limit. Mark you watches and the other person just has to bear it for that section of time. Then when the time is up you go to the other person store with the same time restraints. This way both of you get the same feelings and the same amount of time looking at what you want. Another option is to split up and then make it a game to find each other. Send clues via text messages to each other as to where you are, this can be a fun way to enjoy your shopping a little more. Lastly find some things that interest you both. Maybe a store that carries items for you home or on that carries intimate apparel that way you end on common ground. With a little work and imagination shopping can be fun for both parties.

Pick up a magazine for the opposite sex.

Want to do something that will gain you some insight into your partner? Pick up a magazine about the opposite sex or borrow one of your partners. Read all the articles with an open mind and see how the opposite sex ticks. Make sure it is one that caters to the opposite sex. Readers Digest is bisexual in my opinion but Cosmo or Men's Fitness are definitely geared towards a specific sex. See how the articles fit with the way you feel and try to look at it from the opposite sexes point of view. Maybe then you might start to understand why your woman needs a little more cuddle time or why you man wants to see you in something sexy. I wish there were more magazines for couples that addressed issue from a couples point of view. I know of one but you cannot get a subcription the last time I checked in the United States, the magazine is based out of Canada. You can check out the magazine online it is called 2 For Couples, so if anyone wants to smuggle me a copy across the border let me know.

Read some erotica together.

Nothing can get you in the mood for a little love more then reading about it. Pick up a sexy tale about people in love and read it to each other in bed. Take turns and pass the book back and forth reading a page each. If one or both of you are uncomfortable reading erotica out loud then you can get the same book and read it to yourself as your partner does the same. You could also pick up an audio version of an erotica book and listen to it together. Erotica is a kick starter for you libido. I have found some pretty out their erotica that deals with fetishes and swinging but I personally enjoy couples erotic. Couples erotica is hot and steamy sex that stays within their relationship. No outside forces, threesomes or orgies are within the pages of couples erotica. You can check out some of the erotica I have written by going to my website at the bottom of this post. I enjoy writing about the passion between two people and happen endings in more ways then one. Pick up a good read tonight and find out how much it ads to you love life.

Erotica By Zob Site

Keep an eye on your partners schedule.

Sometimes we all forget a thing or two. Maybe we have something planned and we just blow it. You can do a very romantic thing and try to keep track a little of your partners schedule. Make notes when ever they tell you thinks they need to do. If they say, "I want to get to work early Thursday" You might remind them of that Wednesday night or give them the little shake Thursday morning and say, "Didn't you want to get to work early today?" This goes for social things to like birthday parties or things they are to do with friends. Especially things they don't want to miss. We all forget from time to time and you can be the hero if you remind your partner not to miss their best friends baby shower, or that they were suppose to meet the guys at the game. Don't make it seem like stalking make it feel like you are watching out for them. They will be so happy you might just get a great big kiss.

What to do with an extra day off.

Most people are getting today off as a make up day for the holiday falling on Sunday. If you are one of these people, how are you going to spend your day off. This is where you need to think about romance. Romance is great on these days as you are not expecting to do anything but relax. Avoid the trap of getting things caught up around the house and get out and enjoy a day that should seem like extra time for you. Go on a walk, a ballgame, or take a trip to the lake all of these ideas can be romantic in their own right. Point being when you get extra time to spend with your partner take advantage of it. Don't sit home watching television or catching up on laundry. Explore your romantic side and do something you normally don't have time for.

Happy Fourth of July!!!

Independence Day one of the greatest holidays for us in America. So much more then fireworks and cookouts. This is the day we received freedom and that my friends is one of the greatest gifts of all. It allows me to express myself and do what I wish. Like creating this blog without our freedom we would be a much different nation.

Now on with the romance. I mentioned earlier about fireworks and they are a main ingredient to our fourth of July celebration here. They mean so much more when you are with the person you love. Here is a way to enjoy them even more. Spread a blanket out and lay down to watch the sky show. forget the chairs, laying down doesn't strain the neck and it allows the two of you to get close as the explosions take place over your heads. Hold hands and make sounds as the fireworks continue. Express to your partner the ones you like the best and enjoy the show.

Painting Together

One of the most romantic chores I can think of is painting together. The thrill of watching a room transform before you eyes is amazing. Plus the satisfaction of doing it together is a bonding moment that you can always treasure. Painting can also have a little teasing involved in it, too. You can carelessly painter your partner but beware they can retaliate at any time. As long as the paint is able to be cleaned up there is no harm in this. A little soap and water will do wonders for you after painting. Plus I don't know a couple that doesn't hug after completing a paint job. When they stand back to admire their work the hug just comes naturally.