Speak to each other in code.

Do you ever just want to tell you mate what your thinking and not worry about other people hearing. Maybe you want your man to take you and throw you on the bed and make passionate love to you. Maybe you just want to tell you partner you love them but don't want to hear about it from the other guys and girls at the table. Well, all you have to do is change some words around so that only the two of you know what they mean. Replace sex or love making with baseball then whenever you are around a lot of people you can say to your partner, "Would you like to go to a baseball game" or "I wish I was up to the plate right now" No one will thing about it twice but the two of you will know exactly what it means. Say you want to tell your partner you love them in a crowded setting. You can replace the phrase "I Love You" with "Don't forget to pick up the milk" or "Don't forget to make that phone call" It almost makes it seem like you are spies trying to send coded messages to each other. No matter how it feels you get the point across to each other and no one else.

To much Cologne is not the answer.

Men here is a little tip that might help you out with you partner. Cologne is a nice touch but too much cologne is a disaster. I am sure you have smelt the guy who must put on a bottle before he goes out. Do you think women want to really be anywhere near him? Cologne can enhance your natural essence if you don't over do it. You should put on just a touch and it should go on your skin not your clothes. Put it in areas you hope your partner will find later such as your chest or neck. Let them sniff it out, if they can smell you from more then 3 feet away you have over done it.

Another thing to remember in the cologne debate is that cologne is not a substitute for showering. Don't come from the gym and just splash on some cologne before taking you partner out for dinner. Cologne does not get rid of body odor it just mixes with it. So if you do this you are just smelling like a perfumed skunk. Always practice good hygiene you partner deserves this.

Cheap cologne is okay but don't make the mistake of using more because it doesn't cost much. Every once in a while spring for some more expensive cologne to wear on special occasions, your partner will enjoy the switch up. Lastly make sure you cologne agrees with your partner, they might not like the smell or they could be allergic to it. If that is the case get rid of it now, don't save to wear when you are not around them. It is a great gesture to pitch it if you partner can handle it.

How to get your Lady to wear underwear you want to see.

Let's face it I love to see my wife in sexy panties. Her big complaint is that most of the ones I like are uncomfortable. In my guy logic I think, what's the problem they most likely won't be on very long. Now think about it guys you don't want your special lady wearing her sexy panties to work you want her to wear them at home with you. So you can drop little hints. Like if she is in the shower after a long day, switch out the panties she has picked out with the ones you like. Just be extra quite open the bathroom door and make the stitch. If you get caught entering the bathroom just say you were getting something. If it is a special day where you both are going to be together then make sure those panties you like are on top in her underwear drawer. If those two hints don't work then it is time to bring out the big guns. Go out and get some poster board, in large writing put on the poster board "Please wear these for me!" Then attach the panties to the sign careful not to use anything that might ruin the panties. Now if that doesn't work as a last resort hide all her other panties and leave only the ones you desire in the drawer. If she doesn't like it tell her she can just go commando!

Gentlemen as a special note Victoria's Secret has some really nice panties that are both practical for her and sexy for you. Check out the seamless collection ,called Body by Victoria, they are great to rub your hands all over and from what my wife says the feel great on, also.

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