Friday, September 25, 2009

Encourage someone else!



Encouragement is one of the greatest gifts you can give to anyone. Now if you are in a relationship with that person it is even more of an offering. Get behind them no matter what they want to try and do. If they want to go back to school help them find a way to achieve that dream. Their are a lot of things people want to do and never really seem to get around to doing them. Some night when you are sitting talking to each other find out the other person's passions, what are somethings that interest them. Then you simply encourage them to go for it. Maybe it is ballroom dancing or learning sign language. One thing that I always feel is that we can never learn enough in our lifetime. We can always learn something new, and that goes for even older people. To make your life exciting pick something new to learn and enjoy whenever you can. The last thing you want for yourself or your partner is to sit around in a chair watching television. Get both of your out and enjoy your life to the fullest, encourage, encourage, encourage and then encourage them some more.

Thursday, September 24, 2009

Zoo it up!


One of the most romantic places to take a date early in your relationship is the zoo. This may seem a little silly but think about it. You get to walk around all the time, with no agenda you don't have to be a the lion cage at seven o'clock for your reservation. You have lots of things that can visually stimulate a conversation, with the animals, obviously. You can also talk about the crowd and the children as well as other things around the zoo. As you walk you have many chances to get away from the crowd and get some one on one time. Just find an exhibit that not many people find interesting and you can sit there and talk about what ever you feel like. Being at the zoo also gives you and your date a feeling of freedom. You are not enclosed like the animals and you are free to roam about the entire facility. You can even find a bench just to sit and enjoy the day. The next time you are wondering where to take a date early in the relationship don't look past the zoo, it might just be the place where the two of you will hit it off.

Wednesday, September 23, 2009

Car Scents


Want to impress you date, partner, lover, etc. Scents make for a powerful memory and they can set a mood from the first whiff. Why not put that powerful attack on their senses out right from the start. Go out to your local discount store and pick out a car air freshener that has a light yet definite scent. Now lets go over some details. First of all you don't want one of those green trees hanging from you mirror, that would look dorky plus your partner will notice right away where the scent is coming from. These mirror hangers tell your partner that you just threw the freshener up in a couple of minutes. I suggest hiding them under the seat this makes them wonder did you spend the whole day cleaning out your car to pick them up in. Another thing you need to consider that most of these air fresheners are pretty strong at first. I would suggest letting them air out a little before you put them in your car. Let them sit outside for a day then put them in your car. The last thing you want to do is have your partner get a terrible headache from the smell that is way to strong. Make sure you pick a scent that matches you. Don't get a floral scent it you are a macho guy and don't get a leather smell if you are a delicate lady. You can create a feeling for the whole date in just the first few seconds with the smell you choose.

Tuesday, September 22, 2009

Chocolate Love?


We always associate chocolate with Valentines Day, the day of love. Maybe we should change it to the other way around. Chocolate has been for many many years known to increase sexual desire. Now before you rush out and purchase as much chocolate as you can, it is not an instant fix. The mood has to be right and all that other good stuff. It has been proven that chocolate can give off a similar feeling to that of orgasm, just in a lower setting. I have posted a link in the title of this post that will give you more information on the effect chocolate has on your sex life. My suggestion after reading this article is eat up on the chocolate. Just remember you have to work it off later.

Monday, September 21, 2009

The Feet


We all know how romantic a foot rub can be and a massage on the feet can send people into an almost orgasmic state. This makes me wonder why we don't pay more attention to our partners feet during other times. We spend most of our waking hours standing on our feet and yet we don't give them the romance they need unless we are using it a means of foreplay. First things first, since we spend so much time on our feet make sure you partner or lover has great shoes. Nothing can make your feet hurt worse then cheap shoes that don't give you the cushion you need. After making sure their shoes are proper, get them off their feet as much as possible. If your partner spends all day on their feet at work don't expect them to spend the night walking around the mall. Find an activity where you can sit down and relax their feet. Rent a movie and prop up on the couch or catch the football game in the same manner. Purchase a nice scrub brush for the shower to brush both of your feet with. Nothing feels better then giving your feet the attention they deserve. By doing all these romantic things for your partners feet, then next time you get time to be more romantic you won't have to focus so much on their feet to start with.

Sunday, September 20, 2009

Does Time stop when you kiss?


One way to tell for sure that you are in love is the feeling of time when you kiss that special someone. Does it seem like time stands still? Are you so caught up in the moment that it doesn't matter how long you have been kissing. Can you feel his/her lips as it they were the only think on earth? If you answer yes to most of these question you are surely having some sort of feelings about this person. Now it might not be love but it is a beginning. If you are not getting these feelings then things might not be right. It might be the timing of the kiss, like are you busy when it takes place or are you in a crowded mall. These situations might make it tough to see how your feelings are really doing. However if you are alone and are not getting these feelings then maybe just maybe that spark might not be there. Do you look into each others eyes after a passionate kiss, that is usually a tell, tale sign of the feelings of the other person.

Friday, September 18, 2009

Abundance Romance



If you are familiar with the law of attraction or the secret for that matter we all here about abundance and how the universe will give you what you ask for. Why don't we ask for romance? Abundance romance at that, can we get enough romance in our lives? Now when you ask the universe for what you want make sure to include romance in the equation. Nothing makes our lives more fun and enjoyable then feeling that we are the object of someones effection. Romance makes us do silly thing and makes us feel years younger then we are. It gets our blood pumping and reminds us why we fall in love. Abundant romance is necessary for you life and you health so ask for some today.




Now you also have to put romance into the universe so start thinking now of ways you can be more romantic. Little things are fine and they grow into big things so start small and soon you will be putting romance all over the place.