Leave a special book mark.

Does your partner love to read? If so there is a great idea that will help you tell them you love them as the read along in their favorite book. All you need is a little post it note and a pen. Write or draw a little love note on the post it note. When you partner is not looking slip the sticky note onto a page that they have not read yet. Imagine their feelings when they find the note as they are just reading along. I am sure it will make them smile and feel all warm inside. It doesn't have to be something long just a short note to tell them you are thinking about them will do. The picture is a perfect example.

Don't be to shy to open up to someone you love.

So many times we keep to ourselves and don't let anyone in. If you are doing this to the love of your life you are making a big mistake. The one person that you should be able to trust should be that person you want to spend the most time with. Now I am not saying open up totally to someone you just met, you have to get to know them first. When you have been in a relationship for a while you need to confide and trust them. Tell them the things you need to get off your chest or the things that haunt you. If you have fantasies you can share them with this person. This is the best place for judgement not to be passed. One thing I would suggest is if you are feeling a little indifferent on a subject talk it out with your partner. Tell them that you don't know why you feel this way and then explain the way you feel to them. You might not like going to your parents house or sitting at the back of the movie theater, things like this deserve an explanation. This way your partner doesn't keep asking you why or keep trying to get you to do something you don't want to or that freaks you out. You might be a little surprised that if you get these issues off your chest to your partner, how much stronger your relationship can become. For example if you were scared by clowns as a child and have a fear of them, your partner will know not to buy tickets to the circus, or if you have cousins that teased and hit you as a child, they will understand why you don't want to go to the family reunion that you got an invitation to. Bringing your partner into the light on things that upset you will help shed new light on your relationship.

Make someone feel special - Send them an ecard

Want to tell someone how you feel on the spur of the moment. Well then you need to check out http://www.hallmark.com/ and view their free ecard section. Yes some of their cards are totally free. You can choose from many different occasions or situations. Make your special persons day by sending them a ecard to their personal email address. You might just brighten their day a little. I know when I receive and ecard like this if lets me know that someone is thinking about me and that makes me feel great. Send them a quick love note or a special occasion greeting such as birthday, arbor day, or even friendship day. Hallmark has a card for every thing you can think of so now you don't have any excuses, it doesn't cost anything, you can do it from home or work, and you can make some one's day. Ypou can also click on the title of this post to go to the hallmark store.

Ready to move your relationship on to the next level.

Okay your relationship to this point has be great, you enjoy your partner, you have got to have sex. Now however you want to know a little more, you want to see if you can move your relationship to a more deeper level or area. Maybe your a little nervous about trying to move things into the next level but their is no better time then the present. Here is what you do very secretly go out to your local sex toy shop and purchase an item to be used on or by your partner. Get items like vibrators, or a G spot stimulator for a woman for a guy in your life purchase a masturbation sleeve or a cock ring. You can get a butt plug for either person. Now take your item home and wrap it up put a note inside that says simply "Want Play". Leave it for you lover to find sometime when you are not home. Now comes the hard part, do not say a word about the present let them bring it up and tell you their feelings about it. If a couple of weeks go by and they don't say a word about it then you can mention it and see their reaction.

By doing this you tell them you are interested in using these type of items with them and it give them a chance to tell you how they feel about these items. Maybe they were just waiting for someone to break the ice.

Our Readers Opinions on Number of Dates before Sex.

Our viewers have spoken up and 74 % of them suggest waiting for at least 2-10 dates before having sex with the person you are dating. It was an even split with 37% each saying 2-4 dates was enough and 5-10 dates should be required. 12% said you should try your date on the very first date and 12% suggested you should wait for marriage to start your party. I tend to agree with the 74% and believe that you can wait to long to where the date loses interest and on the first date is just silly. I personally don't believe anyone should wait all the way til marriage to have sex for the first time, and this is because some people are not sexually compatible and you don't want to enter a long term commitment and then realize that you sex life is going to suck. Let us know your feelings on these findings and you may give us your input also we love to hear it.

Don't pass up other peoples parties.

A good way to see how well you and your partner will interact with others is to venture out to a party you have been invited to. It is easy to skip these parties and I will be the first one to tell you being trapped at a boring party is not very much fun. First thing to do is give your and your partner a way out, tell the host or hostess you can only stay for an hour, then if the party is lame you are only there for an hour, on the other hand you can stay longer if you both are having a good time. Always respect your partner if they want to leave. Never ignore a request that your partner is not having a good time. Drinking is fine at these parties as long as one of you is sober enough to drive. As I mentioned earlier this will help tell you how well the two of you are as a couple it tests all the things you might have trouble with later on in your relationship. If you can make it through a friends party and still find the enjoy each others company more then the other people at the party you are well on your way to building a solid relationship. However if you find that you can't find happy ground at the party or your partner is snubbing you for the cute little lady in the corner you have now seen the red flag. Sure these parties might not be the most fun you have ever had but they will show you a thing or two about your partner.

Tought times make romance even more important.

Right now most people are in the same boat. We are all having to really nit pick what we spend our money on. With this most of the romantic things we use to spend money on are falling to the way side until better times return. For the romantic at heart this is a real bummer, however if you are creative you can still bring the romance home in other forms. Maybe you can't afford a big fancy dinner out, but maybe you can make a nice meal at home for your partner and you to enjoy. A huge bunch of flowers might be just a little too much, but a nice single rose still says "I Love You" For every romantic thing you use to do you can find a less expensive version. Going out for drinks can be replaced with buying some booze for home and inviting friends over to play board games. Spending the night snuggling on the couch watching movies under a blanket with microwave popcorn can replace going to the megaplex and paying $10 a piece to see the same movie. I hope you see where I am headed with all this. You don't have to stop being romantic you just have to find less expensive ways to do the same things. However some to the best things are and will always be free. Long talks, hand in hand walks, and making love all night are still high on the romantic list and to my knowledge have never cost anything.