Smores Lovin'

Tonight no matter where you are get some supplies and make some smores. Get the chocolate, marshmallows, and gram crackers and make the tasty treat with you partner. Yes it is great if you are somewhere that you have a fire going to make the smores the correct way. If not then adlib use the microwave or toast them over you gas grill. Smores are gooey and a great way to start a conversation as you try not to make a mess of yourself. Take turns making the treat and decide who makes the best smores in your relationship. If you can find a way to make them outside over a fire, then you can spend the night looking up at the stars. Feed each other or lick the chocolate off each others fingers is a great way to start an intimate evening.

A Single Flower

Okay so you are on your way to pick up your date. Take a moment to stop and pick up a single flower. Nothing fancy just a simple single flower. Nothing says I hope things go well then this little gesture. More flowers would say that you were expecting to much. Present it to your date upon arriving at their house, it is an ice breaker and simple put a nice feeling for the date to receive. It is Innocent and doesn't suggest that you expect more then companionship on this date. Plus in this day and age not to many men will take the time to do this, you be the exception. A carnation, or single rose is very elegant and easy to find. No excuses get that flower and hold it behind your back as you knock on the door. It might help the butterflies in your stomach.

Minature Golf / Large wager

Okay are you sitting around thinking of something you can do that is romantic and yet outside and fun. Well you might not believe it but you can make miniature golf romantic by adding some wagers on the game. Pick a coarse that is close and then figure out what type of wagers you will be putting on each hole. They can be dinner out, massages, chores, or even sexual trades. Then get your putters out and have some fun trying to beat your partner. If one of you is a better player then try to balance the game out with some form of handicap. Such as the better player switches hands that they play with, or the not as good player gets to take an extra stroke each hole. The friendly competition between the two of you is good for your relationship. Unless one or both of you is a very bad loser, then maybe this isn't what you need.

Sometimes more it not necessarily better.

Don't you love the way a great perfume or cologne smells on your partner. Have you ever known anyone that uses way to much perfume or cologne? Well the opposite is true of these people, they don't smell good. I know for me when I get next to someone who has way to much perfume or cologne on it gives me a headache. I wonder how can they stand the smell. Let me start by saying perfume and or cologne is not a replacement for a shower! You should only have to use a small amount or either to get your desired effect. After all you want your special someone to be the only person to notice you aroma not your entire office. A good way to avoid putting to much on is to stay away from perfume or cologne that has a spray top. Get something that you have to dabble on. Put a small amount on areas like your chest, inside of your wrist, or neck for the gentlemen. Ladies us your little dabbles between your breasts, the inside or your wrists, or your neck also. Another important tip is to not put the cologne or perfume on you clothes, it works much better on your body and could stain your clothes.

Think of it this way, would you want your partner to get in close to have to smell your perfume or cologne. I have some friends that think the more perfume or cologne they wear the better. This are also the friends I know when they are around because I can smell them first before I see them. So go out and get a really good perfume or cologne and use it sparingly. If you purchase good quality items they will last for a long time if you don't take a bath in it.

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Clean up your partners car.

Want to get a great big kiss? Well how about surprising you partner by washing or cleaning out their car. Almost everyone needs this at some point and time. You know how the sacks of fast food find their way to the floor. Maybe it's pop bottles or cans that seem to appear after time. Think about the dust on the dash, unless you are pretty picky that adds up fast. They do have some services that will come out and detail a car at your work, which would be a great surprise for your partner. Just make sure before the detailer arrives that you partner knows someone is not just breaking into their car. That could get ugly.

After you get this completed either by yourself or with help from a detailer. Make sure to leave a little love note for your partner. Tell them that a clean car would be great to take you out to dinner in.

How to act in public

We all understand the begining of a relationship is a wonderful time. You cannot seem to get enough of each other and every time you are together you want to touch and kiss. Well that is fine and dandy when you are in the comfort of your own home. When you venture out in public you need to have some control. People do not like to see adults groping each other at the mall. Parents especially don't want their young children watching to adults, for lack of a better term, getting it on. Use some control, hold hands, or put your arms around each other is fine. These hands should always remain in a respectable place, never down the back of her pants. Have a little control and when you get home you can lose this control.

I think it is very sweet to see an older couple holding hands in public, but the thought of them french kissing in public might make me puke. So think about how other people are viewing you during this important phase in your relationship. Don't use it all up right from the start, think of it as saving it for later. Ration this affection out. I would much rather have a stable passionate relationship for the rest of my life, then one that loses it's appeal because we have done all we can do.

Lock those hands partners!

Here is a fun and romantic thing to try the next time you make love. Take one of your hand and one of your partners and lock them together. Intertwine your fingers and hold tight, now you can let loose of this hand until you are finished making love to each other. Sound exciting? It is figuring out how to position yourself to do those things you normally do gets to be a challenge. If you have handcuffs go ahead and use them as long as you can get to the key at some point and time. Figure out different ways and different positions you can get into with only one arm available. Challenge yourself and your partner. To make it even more interesting switch hands the next time and use the other ones. Just stay connected and work out the kinks!!!