Protect Your Relationship As A Man

Relationship is a friendship that is perfected in companionship. It is marked by mutual happiness, joy, feeling and love. When a man is in a relationship with a woman he wants, there is an obvious show of it. To make the best out of it, you as the man will have to but in a lot of things. You are the one to protect it because as a man you are gifted with all it takes. Know that you can enjoy your relationship and have it be what the way you want it. This article shows those things that make it easier to have it work well for you. Please read on!

When you are in a relationship with a woman you have to love her, care and admire her. Cherish her not just in words but in deeds. Pamper and per her. When you do so, you are building an edge around her. She won't think of any other person other than you. This is because she sees you as someone she can believe in and someone who meets her needs, so how can she start looking for elsewhere when is very ok with you. When you are doing this ensure you are not manipulating her or controlling her feeling towards you. Go beyond trying to please her, bring out the best in her through your actions towards her. Encourage her and she will be proud of you.

Put in your time and efforts. Create time in your schedule for her. Don't neglect her when setting your top priorities. This shows how much value you place on her and how you treasure her. Don't make the mistake of making it a routine, exceed that boundary and go beyond that. Make her a part of you. For instance, you can give her a call, send text messages, buy gifts for her especially those ones she likes and even advice her when necessary. She will treat you as her prince. She will first consult you she wants to do anything. Help her when it is needful and don't kill her spirit with you criticisms.

When you are relating with her don't make it a do or die thing. She will be afraid of you if she discovers that you are mounting pressure on her. She won't feel comfortable around you. Learn to properly communicate to her what your feelings for easy understanding. Don't be scared to express your thoughts and feelings to her. This assures her of the importance you attach to the relationship. Knowing that what easily drives a woman is what she hears, so say the right and truthful things to her. Don't fabricate things to make her feel she is loved. You will only be deceiving your own self. You will gain her trust if she recalls your previous dealings with her.

Make her your best friend. Many a times, a man finds it hard to confide in the woman he loves. But learn to develop a true friendship with her. This makes communication easier. Don't treat her as an inferior person to you. Express your fears, thoughts, doubts, feelings and even your plans to her. This makes her feel valued and important. You never can tell how good she is until you entrust things into her hands. As a friend laugh with her, play and joke with her. This makes her very free with you and her honesty with you will be easily seen. Whatever you can't handle as a human being put them into the able hands of God Almighty. Don't cease to pray for her and yourself. As long as you diligently carry out your duties and responsibilities as a man, leave the rest for God and see the wonderful things that will happen to you.

Ugomma Deborah Nwosu is a trained Electrical/Electronics Engineer. A certified Microsoft Expert. She is also a motivational/Inspirational/Financial Speaker and Relationship Consultant who set her gaze lucidly and her wit sharply to issues that affects the economical, social and spiritual development of individuals; enabling them live a beautiful life in this wonderful world.

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