The Music is the secret

Music is a very powerful tool you can use to set moods. Think about it when you want to be romantic do you want loud hip hop music on? Most likely not however some might find that romantic. Most people would like slow sweet music to set the romantic mood. Listen to your television shows you watch and see how the music they play in the back ground sets the mood and then use that to your advantage. If you want fun and excitement put on upbeat music, I even have music I like to clean the house to. Another wonderful idea is to use music with heavy beats or lot of drums for the times you are having sex. Trust me you want to try this. The point being music is our soundtrack of life. Use it to your advantage.

Romance is the reason for any season.

Romance changes with each passing season. You can't do the same thing in the winter as the summer as far as romance goes. For example a trip to the beach is not near as romantic in the middle of winter as it is in summer time. Like wise a snuggling ride in a horse drawn carriage is far more exciting in the winter then in the summer. When the leaves fall it is nice to have warm drinks on the deck or in the spring getting out and enjoying the first flowers is romantic. No matter what season you are in you can find many a romantic thing to do. You just have to pay attention to the time of the year and adjust your romance accordingly.

You can't save up love and romance.

Love and Romance are not like money you don't get any interest from saving them up. Locking them up only makes them less valuable. Spend you love and romance on your partner as if you were showering them with it. Make the love they feel over abundant and you will get as much if not more in return. So start spreading the love around and make a production of it. Soon the love you will be getting back will be way more valuable then that which you wanted to lock away.

Romance lives and dies with effort.

How much effort are you putting into your romance? If your answer is not much then you have a lot of work to do. Romance is the blood that pumps through your relationship. Without it just like your heart your relationship will soon stop functioning at 100%. Now putting to much romance into your relationship can do the same thing but you should be doing 3 to 4 romantic things a week for your partner. If not you are not putting enough effort into it. You don't have to make a big production of it but it has be show your partner you care. An over the top candlelight dinner might be over the top but picking them up a candy bar doesn't quite cut it. Simple things like a massage or setting up time for them to take a relaxing bath can take a few minutes to set up but will make a lasting impression on the importance of your relationship.

Tis the night for roleplay.

Tonight is the night dust off all your costumes and get into a little role play. Be a sexy devil or a horny vampire but whatever it is make sure you add intimacy into it. Heck you can even be the ghost with an erection. Whatever makes you Halloween special is what you need to do. Halloween can be one of the most sexy holidays of the year if you enjoy dressing up. So through your doubt to the wind and get sexy this Halloween.

Skip the treats and go right for the tricks!!!!

Halloween doesn't have to be only for children. Adults can enjoy the days just as much but forget about the candy. Halloween is a great time to make love. All the costumes and spooky things that go on can really be exciting. Bringing that excitement into your bedroom is par of the fun for adults. Pick our costumes and dress and act the parts in your love making. Be Indians, or people from ancient Rome, the possibilities are endless. Have fun with it and use it to bring some newness into your sex life. Plus it is much better for you then the candy the kids get.

Think as your lover would think.

A wonderful way to express your love for your partner is to think as they think. The longer you are with your partner the more and more you start to understand how they think. Once you hit this point of understanding your partner preferences you can start getting a jump on things that will show them how much you love them. For example if you know after a hard day your partner would like to go out to dinner, be waiting when they get home and suggest going out to dinner before they can open their mouth to say it. Maybe your partner likes to go on walks on warm summer days. Well then watch the forecast and when you see a warm sunny day coming up bring up a walk early in the morning. Getting a jump on these things before you partner can suggest them will make them feel really special. There are so many of these little thing that can help your relationship hit new highs. Myself for example enjoy making love when it is raining outside. So if my partner wanted to really make me feel special on a rainy day she would get me into our bedroom during the hardest part of the rain and start being intimate with me.