Most of the myths about oral sex are history. Old fashion, prudent prejudices are no longer valid in modern times. Some medical and hygiene basics are enough for couples to enjoy that part and include it in their sexual routine. Although religion leaders are avoiding to mention or clarify the issue further, they have become more 'flexible' and not consider it as a "great sin" or abnormal sexual behavior...
- Oral sex causes aphrodisiac diseases... (No. it does not cause anything but pleasure, at least to one of the partners... )
- Oral sex can cause diseases due to germs on the penis or vagina... (Following a hygiene basics like bathing or washing that area -at least- before we start anything, then you have nothing to be afraid off.)
- Men who like fellatio, are gays... (No comments... one of the biggest BS ever...)
- Men cannot use condoms during fellatio... (If it is 'necessary' for any reason, of course they can wear condom. Just look at the specifications of the 'product' to be...'oral friendly', or else, dealing with the condom's lubricant could be much worst experience...)
- Women who enjoy giving oral sex to men, are whores or they like to be submissive... (Another -long gone- prudent prejudice, due to the lack of sexual education or cultural issues...)
- Oral sex is a pornographic act, not sexual interaction... (Who said that porn films, viewed with the right attitude and perspective, are not sexually educational material?)
- Oral sex is not "real sex"... (Who ever believes that, may give us his/hers definition of what "real sex" is, and then we can discuss it...)
- A man who likes cunnilingus, cannot satisfy the woman in other ways...(Although there might be some -exceptional- medical reasons in that myth, surely it cannot be considered as 'confirmed'...)
- If a woman swallows the semen, she will get pregnant...(Yeah, an if she eat the seeds of a fruit, a fruit tree will grow inside her...)
- Girls will/can lose their virginity with oral sex... (Oh my God... is this your...tongue? Yes, she could and will lose her virginity...mentally! If a virgin has or is having oral sex, then in her mind -psychologically, she has lost her virginity; the rest is inevitably a more easy natural consequence, sooner or later...)
- Your teeth will get whitened, if you rub them with semen... (I wonder what ingredients those whitening toothpastes have... I've never looked, have you?)
*Although oral sex does not cause aphrodisiac or other diseases, it can spread some "Sexually Transmitted Infections" like gonorrhea, herpes, HIV and many others, which are usually transmitted through exposure to blood or other body fluids like sperm or vaginal secretions. Oral sex, exposes the mouth and tongue, so the smallest abrasions or cuts will make easier the infection's transmission.
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