Bring a little light to bed.

bringing a little light to be can be a huge benefit.

           Most people are a little shy when it comes to being naked with each other.  Even when they have been in a relationship for a long time some people are a little nervous about letting there partner see them naked.  One the other side of the coin their partner would love to see them naked and would consider it an honor.   My suggestion is getting a flameless candle and putting in under your sheets.  This way the partner that is nervous doesn't feel like the are just out in the open and the other partner gets to see the body that he/she is worshiping.  It is a win win situation and can spark for added excitement in the bedroom.   Plus with being able to see you body better your partner might be able to work under the covers a little better.  Adding to more pleasure for the both of you. 

The winter blues!

Grown Ups has a classic summer feel to it.  

          By this time those of us that live in areas that have had snow and ice are going a little stir crazy right now.  We have been stuck inside, battling flu and cold season, as well as just trying to stay warm.  Yet we still have a couple of months before the nice weather starts to join us.  What I suggest the two of you do is start looking for summer type of things to do?  Go get a hotel for a night with a indoor pool and go swimming in this cold mess we have outside right now.  Clean the snow off your grill and cook some burgers to give that summer feel.   Even get a movie that has a summer twist to it to watch might I suggest Grown Ups with Adam Sandler in it along with a great cast.   By doing this you might fight off a little of the winter blues and keep your sanity.  

Need a great idea for a wedding present?

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          Here is a wonderful idea for that time when you need to get a wedding gift and have no idea what to get.  The book Joyful Couples makes a wonderful gift in this case.  Joyful Couples isn't your average book with tips and suggestions for couples.  Joyful Couples is a book that you pass around to other couples to gain insight into what makes their relationship special.  The book is designed to be given to a couple that in turns writes a little secret to what helps make their relationship special and is then passed to another couple. Once the book is filled it is returned to the original couple and they have ideas from couples they feel are wonderful to start their new marriage on.  This is a gift that keeps on giving long into the future.  

Change your taste.

A little fruit in your diet might just make things a little more tasty.  

           If you are over 18 and partake of oral sex regularly you can change your taste to excite your lover.  You can pick up flavored lubes for the women on men this is not bad but putting anything in the vagina can be a little like playing russian roulette.  Make sure the product is safe for insertion into the vagina don't put product inside that contain sugar as a yeast infection is sure to follow.  You can avoid all this decision by changing your diet.  You can both vastly change your diet and change the taste of what comes out of you.  Fruits and juices are the best way to sweeten things up while avoiding caffeine and alcohol are things that can make you taste bitter.   Experiment a little and see what each other likes do your research as there are many foods and drinks that effect your taste.  Lastly enjoy the activities and discuss the taste later.

Get off the couch.

          No relationship ever flourished because of sitting on the couch watching television.  Watching a movie or a show now and then isn't bad but think about how much time you spend watching television.  Could you be doing something together?  Maybe playing a game or planning out fun things to do with each other.  For heaven sakes make love instead of being zombies in front of the television.  Set a limit to how much television you watch and you soon might find your relationship reaching higher places.  

Lovers Dream

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          One thing that lovers seem to do more than anything is dream.  Be it during sleep or together as they talk about the future.  We lovers dream and we dream big.  We have grand images of special places, wonderful amazing ideas, and sharing it all together.  So lovers dreams should be recorded.  Written down on paper to go over from time to time to see how they chance or to see how close we are getting to them.  My favorite place to write my dreams is in a dream journal like the one above.  Remember a key to making your dreams come true is to put them to paper so you have record of them.   

Romance is like a working out...?

          Romance is like working out.  The more effort you put into it the more you will get out of it.  If you want a a strong and healthy relationship you have to work at it.  You can't cheat on it or ignore it and help it grow. You have to treat it with respect put the right things into it and it will become a wonderful work of art.  You can't work on your relationship occasionally just like fitness it is a constant improvement.  Just like exercise why wouldn't you want to have your relationship healthy and strong?

Fill your tank with romance.

           There is something about a quite romantic drive that is special.  Talking and driving to new exciting places or even to nowhere can be as romantic as a candle lit dinner.  Look at it as exploring and see how many wonderful places you can find and venture off to.  Spend your time being together and it doesn't have to be the most beautiful day take off sometime when it is raining or snowing and watch the beauty of nature together as you roll along.

Be more romantic this year.

          Time for you new years resolution and I will make it simple for you.  This year be more romantic with your partner.  Simple enough all you have to do is start thinking everyday what you can do that is romantic today.  Maybe it is dance with them as your cooking lunch, taken them on a walk through your old neighborhood, or bring flowers home.  The point is that if you think about romance daily it will start becoming natural and soon you will be doing it without thinking about it.  I have never heard anyone say, "My partner is too romantic"  have you?  Then start today this second day of the year and become the romance king this year!