Top 10 Dating Ideas That Will Have em Wrapped Around Your Little Finger

Saying I Love You... Maybe a strong "like"...?

Either way, it's allot to swallow without a good date

plan in place. That's where we come in.

Our Top 10 dating ideas are a MUST read to get your game on for the saying I love you moment. From us and from our experts... YOU. Feel free to add more.

Grab your date, that blanket, wine basket and head to the great outdoors. 
Nothing says romance like a cozy spot on the beach, by a lake or a hidden trail among the redwoods. This one is perfect for sunset with light wine and cheese appetizer. A Warm fire and toasted marshmallows will make her melt... A day or night excursion works well with this one...

What to bring:

- Blankets (or towels if it's daytime)
- 1 duraflame log for beach fire
- Wine or bevi of choice
- Cheese, crackers, fruit, marshmallows and skewers
- (And don't for get the wine opener and matches)

A Night of Laughter.. a must have for us girls when on a date (and what better source for dating advice)?. So, if you're running out of jokes (the good ones) or not much of a comedian... why not pay for one! (talk about setting the stage for saying I love you). Check out your local Improv or comic venue and follow with a stroll to a light dinner. The show will set the stage for some easy flowing conversation...

Saying I Love You by Getting Your "Gourmet" On.. now here is some serious dating advice for you: Nothing is more impressive then showing off your culinary talents by cooking a meal for your date. Add a few flowers, candles and she'll be putty in your hands.

Total Amusement.. Ahh, saying I love you at an amusement park.. Straight out of "When Harry Met Sally" right? Why? Because it's the perfect ice-breaker and adds a fun/spontaneous element to the moment... (which is perfect if the previous dates tend to be on the serious side). Playful is just as important as romantic!

Exotic Tastes.. One of our TOP dating ideas to date: There is nothing sexier than breaking out of the "norm" and exploring new tastes and cultures. It shows strength, sophistication and style. I once took my date to a Moroccan restaurant. We ate with our fingers while siting on cushions, then joined in on the belly dancing. Needless to say, more dates followed.

Explore.. Once again, nothing sexier than breaking out of the "norm" it breaks you out of the crowd in terms of dating ideas...
Pick an unusual spot maybe an hour away. A historical landmark (Golden Gate bridge, a famous building, some where special in your home town etc). Make sure you read up on the location or area you are visiting. This way as you enjoy the drive, you can impress with your newly explored knowledge. (something like: "did you know there are people working 24 hours a day year round just re-painting the Golden Gate Bridge"?). Looks and brains I tell ya!

Get Physical.. (and I'm sure all dating tips for men say the same thing). Work up a sweat. Do we need to say more? Invite that special one for a challenge (cause you know we all LOVE that). This dating idea shows a true sign of confidence and sex appeal. Big or small, fit or out of shape - it just doesn't matter, it's appealing. So slap on those tennies and hit the tennis court, your favorite hiking spot or biking trail.

I once surprised a date with a picnic basket of wine, crackers, cheese, then broke out the tennis rackets. We laughed hysterically as neither one of us played but flirting around the court sure worked...

Cucina Cucina.. this is not among the standard of dating ideas... so, it will undoubtedly boost your rating.
Take your date to a gourmet foods store (or go at it alone) and select from the "do it yourself menu kits". These are unusual culinary dishes where the kit usually includes specific instruction, tools, pictures etc. (they have items like making sushi, pizza, Indian dishes etc) Then, have some fun in the kitchen. We promise your date will be charmed by the creativity and the trial and error is very entertaining!

Home Sweet Home.. more of a traditional dating tip; a trip down memory lane is an amazing way to get to know someone... planning a date with a tour of "where you are from" will charm him or her into your arms (and if it doesn't, your better without em)! A bike ride down your old streets, a ride through your favorite childhood park, then coffee at the downtown cafe where you first worked. You get the picture...

Cool Culture.. this dating tip is timeless; Once again, when/if you are feeling like you need a little help in the "conversation" area, nothing like a museum, street fair or even a play to stimulate the mind. (and date);)

A final word to the wise; be confident, be yourself and just a tad bit mysterious (just to keep them on their toes)...

Cheers!

Elle Petes, Author & Founder ~ [http://www.relationship-advice-bootcamp.com]

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Skills For Healthy Romantic Relationships

People may know what a healthy romantic relationship looks like, but most don’t know how to get one. Psychologist and researcher Joanne Davila describes how you can create the things that lead to healthy relationships and reduce the things that lead to unhealthy ones using three evidence-based skills – insight, mutuality, and emotion regulation. Share this with everyone who wants to have a healthy relationship.

Dr. Joanne Davila is a Professor of Psychology and the Director of Clinical Training in the Department of Psychology at Stony Brook University. She received her PhD in Clinical Psychology from UCLA.

The Full Moon Approaches

While some say that love makes the world go 'round, the world is actually made up of energy. Hey! Wait! Isn't love really energy, too? Yep. Grab your romantic partner and get ready to go on a journey that will help you better understand three key energies in your life because when you do you will love the moon, the earth and yourself more than you ever have before. You'll discover how to connect to them, get them to work for you, and in turn grow a beautiful relationship with them. Moon Energy, Earth Energy, and Sexual Energy are powerful resources for you to become fully conscious of and tap into. When you allow the three to interweave together in your world you will likely be blown away by the synchronicity and serendipity that begins to show up in everyday life. Confidence, deep spiritual connection, and amazing success will be at your fingertips. Filled with great wisdom and a ton of exercises, ceremony and ritual, The Full Moon Approaches: Merging Moon Energy, Earth Energy & Sexual Energy is sure to cast a magical spell upon you, your relationship and your life.

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Why Sex Is Better Than...

Lately, sex has been getting a bad rap. Surfing the net, you see all kinds of top 10 lists slandering sex - i.e. "Top 10 reasons Why Sleep is Preffered Over Sex", "Top 10 reasons Why Beer is Preffered More Than Sex", "Top 10 reasons Why Chocolate is Finer Than Sex" and so on.

Sex beats just about anything. I would rather have a nice romantic evening with my husband, than sit around and eat a box of chocolate, drink beer and go to sleep.

Here is my new "Top 10 List."

"Top 10 Reasons Sex Kicks Butt on Candy, Flowers and Beer."

1. If someone yells during sex, you are doing it right.

2. Sex gives you nice memories, beer makes everything hazy.

3. When things get hot, chocolate gets soft.

4. You don't have to worry about choosing which kind of sex.

5. When you get great sex, you don't have to pass it around.

6. Sex is a "hands on" experience.

7. Sex is free. (Usually)

8. Lousy sex is finer than a lousy candy.

9. Sex created the need for lingerie ... chocolate the need for control top pantyhose.

10. Sex makes your fingers smell sweeter when you are done.

Sometimes Sweetie needs a little prodding. A reminder that life is not all work and no play. We all need a little lovin'. A quick little smile and the wink of an eye is usually enough to get your lover's attention. You don't have to hit them over the head with a bedpost.

Valentine's Day gifts, birthday presents, Christmas gift, whatever holiday or occasion ... forget the candy, flowers and beer ... get Sweetie to hit the sack with you.

Sex educator, speaker, editor and blogger Jani, is the author of “The G-gasm Method: The Ultimate Guide to the G-spot Orgasm” - and “Tonight's The Night ... Your Ultimate Guide to Sexy, Kinky Things to do With Your Lover” available at Better Sex - TONIGHT.

Thanks ... enjoy!

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4 Things That Will Repair A Dying Sex Drive

A shocking revelation by Alix Fox (a Durex Sex expert) has left many imminent couples muddled by the reality of the sexual patterns among couples. In her report, Alix explained that at least one in five men and an even larger figure among women always experience a loss of libido just a few months after their engagement. Alix sort of tried to associate this low sex drive among couples with effects of hormonal contraception, which have been known to kill libido in days.

Also, some antidepressants, which by the way are usually prescribed over the counter in many drug stores, could cause a less inclination to sex. What's even more shocking is the fact that Stress alone has the same hormonal impact on sex drive as menopause and aging does. So how do you boost your sex drive, if stress alone, is killing it? Well, Alix suggested 4 things that could restore sexual sanity in your relationship. Here they are.

Spice it up

Actually, research has shown that monotony and repeating the same roles and styles all the time is a real killer to sexual drive. According to Alix, both women and men should avoid being monotonous in their daily bedroom affairs. In other words, stop being the mum who cleans and cooks every day, or the office dad who carries office homework to your house every night. Instead, try to spice you behaviors once in a while.

For instance, if you are a woman, you can try taking control in bed every once in a while. Surprise him with lacy lingerie and some erotic makeup. If you are a man, kill the pattern too. A good recommendation is that don't plan for sex. Let it come impromptu. Couples who always plan that Wednesday or Friday is the D-Day, have a higher chance of killing the sex drive in their relationship. Break the cycle and spice up your relationship.

Have a Scent

The human brain is programmed to work like a computer. It associates certain inputs to certain activities. Ever noticed how auto-correct works on your phone? Your brain works in a similar manner. If certain words are typed on your messenger, the phone is able to know what is likely to be the next word in the line.

In a sexual context, when a man or a woman wears a certain kind of perfume all the time, their partner tends to associate that perfume scent to their partner. A study in America has proven that men are turned on by pumpkin pie and lavender scents when their women are cooking. Again, a Men's Journal in Canada, after conducting a survey on 100 married men, found out that scent has a considerable impact on libido.

Some men and women have also confirmed that they tend to get sexually active when their partners are wearing a certain kind of perfume. Sticking to a particular perfume allows time for your partner to associate a unique scent with your presence, and hopefully next time they smell that perfume at the bus station on their way home, they might come running straight into the act.

Have your own Game

Couple games are perhaps the best part about dating. Being able to telepathically communicate and understand jokes by just looking at each other, even when everybody else in the room seems confused, is just golden. To boost your sex drive, marriage experts recommend having a small game to delay the action and keep things exciting in the bedroom. It's all about testing the waters, building anticipation, and erotically charging the mind.

Communication

Almost every relationship problem can be solved through communication. The worst heartbreaks ever shared often have one thing in common - lack of communication. Men are usually very reluctant to hear from their women where they are doing it wrong. Discussing about your sex life will pull more engagement into the act and ensure sexual satisfaction for both of you.

Communicate with you woman, know what turns her on. If you are a woman, faking orgasms is never the answer.

Stacy West is a professional life coach specializing in Men and Women's issues. She also enjoys blogging part-time at Guy Talk, an entertainment blog on Men and Lifestyle. Visit https://www.guytalk.xyz for more.

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