Sexting - Work it Work it....

Recently, a married friend of mine attended a popular trade show. He met an older, also married, woman there who was without her husband and they were clearly attracted to each other. The friend sent her a photo by email and one thing led to another. Soon they were involved in a series of dirty text messages, emails, and phone calls that would make the editors of Penthouse blush.

Sending dirty text messages, or sexting, is growing among teens and adults. It just seems so...innocent.

That was until she told him he'd be in a nearby town and should meet her at a hotel. That's when he realized it had gone too far and he ended it before causing potential irreparable harm to both of their marriages.

My friend shared these text messages and emails with me and I must say, both of them were quite good at sexting. In reading the sexting messages, I could see how sexting was such an attraction to two married people involved in rather traditional lifestyles with comfortable homes, kids, and a couple of dogs.

1. Messages were short and direct. No messing about here. Get right to the point. Send the kind of messages that you like to yell out during vacation sex after you've drank a couple bottles of wine.

2. Given the short length of the messages, sexting acronyms can really help out. Your sexting partner will have fun figuring them out. "TAY" is a popular one to write even if you don't mean it.

3. The messages are witty and creative. When you are writing less than 160 characters on a text message screen, you don't have much room for wordiness and that actually added to the creativity. When sexting, you need to take advantage of all the characters you can.

4. You can be bolder in a written message. Many people can't say these bad words, but writing them is a totally different story. And, it seems much less offensive.

5. It's low risk. Since the written message doesn't have any verbal inflection, if the sexting partner is offended, you can always say you were "JK" (just kidding).

6. There's no problem with shyness in the written word. You'd never think the PTA president and church usher could say those kinds of things, would you?

7. It's a no committal way to say that you like somebody. If the sexting partner doesn't return the banter, so what? Nothing lost, nothing gained.

8. Rapid fire emails and text messages can really heat up the sexual tension, but be prepared to be disappointed when your sexting partner needs to go to a meeting or take the kid to basketball practice.

9. Give it a break sometimes. If you are getting hot emails and text messages all day, it ceases to be hot. It just seems desperate.

10. Don't get drunk and start sexting. It can be a real turnoff if you use the "L" word. Your sexting partner doesn't really love you; at most, she's just looking for a booty call in a small city hotel.

11. Double check whom you're sending the dirty text message or email to. You don't want Mom to get the message intended for the girl you met at the hotel bar in Vegas.

12. Remember, you are playing with fire here. If you are in a committed relationship, be very careful. You can really ruin a good thing for nothing more than a sexting fantasy.

When you do finally meet your sexting partner (and you probably will given the sexual tension built up), you are going to have a lot to live up to. Better keep up the carnal conversation or your partner will be disappointed. This isn't about hugging and kissing.

Anthony Wayne works in the marketing department of Advanced Telecom Services and is editor of a blog about text message advertising called the Text Message Blog. Advanced Telecom Services' text message mobile marketing product ishttp://www.84444.com. Wayne really does have a friend who got involved in an email sexting affair; honest honey. Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Anthony_Wayne

Sexercise.

Sexercise is a blend of sex and exercise. It is done to help improve health and fitness. What better way to get in shape while having fun with your partner! Through this form of exercise, your sex life will continue to improve as your body gets in better and better shape. You will have more stamina and endurance to hold those favorite positions for longer periods of time - or even be able to perform those new, more strenuous positions you have been dying to try. An added benefit of sexercise is that your body will end up in better shape which in turn will make you look and feel better and give you greater confidence in yourself. Another benefit is that your partner will also look and feel better and be, perhaps, more attractive and exciting to you.

So, how do you do it? There are many sites on the web that give you specific instructions and demonstrations for particular ones for those areas of your body you want to improve the most to start with. Just do a web search for "sexercise" - the results will give you many to choose from.

A tame way to start is to switch positions. If you are the one always on the bottom, switch to the top. You will find that a whole different set of muscles are used in that position! You both may find that this change is quite exciting and lead to better sex during your first experience! Can't beat that! Most sites recommend that you do it at least three times a week, but, you can do it even more often if you are so inclined, the choice is yours. You can also do exercises that will help you practice doing it. You can do some aerobics to help increase your stamina for practicing or you can do some push ups which will help you be able to support your body weight during some of the more strenuous sexercises. There are many exercises that you can do to improve your muscle tone. Those exercises have the added benefit, when combined with doing it, of toning your body and building your stamina even faster.

If you do not have a partner, you can do it alone through masturbation if you do so athletically with health and fitness in mind. There are many websites that give you specific instructions for masturbation sexercises. Do an internet search for masturbation sexercise, pick your favorite, then get to the fun part - sexercising!

So, get busy and do it - build muscles and endurance, burn calories, and have fun! It can exhausting so take some breaks - eat some food, drink some fluids - then get back to it!

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Quote of Nakedness.

One of the great features of being in a relationship is,

Being able to be naked together

and

go exploring.

-Zob-

Home Dating.

The obvious advantage home dating has over more traditional dating venues is, of course, cost. You can get a great night together for next to nothing.

Home dates are, of course, not ideal first dates. We want to know and trust someone a bit before taking them back to our place. Dating at home also depends where we are sexually in our relationship. If we have yet to do the deed, the bedroom will be like that elephant in the room - you know, the one that's there but everyone's pretending isn't.

So assuming a home date is right in your relationship, how can you make it special? Perhaps you can throw a party for two - decorate the place like it's New Year's Eve and don't forget the balloons! Don't tell your date - keep it a surprise. By sprucing up your apartment you completely change the atmosphere and made it clear you want to have fun. It also shows that you're willing to put some effort into the relationship to keep it interesting.

Set the scene with these ideas:

* Make it romantic - rose petals, scented candles and soft, sexy music can create a beautiful mood.

* Cook him or her something special and have a candle-lit dinner - do some research and find out your beloved's favorite dish. Go all out, make your date feel special. If you don't usually cook, this gesture will be extra special.

* Hire a telescope - if you live in a big smoggy city, go to a star gazers club and see what deals they have.

* Let the date venue be the hot tub - is there anything more romantic than sharing a bath with your lover?

* At the (home) movies - anyone can rent a DVD and pop it on, but make the whole night a recreation of the cinema experience, with popcorn, snacks, a dark room...and turn those cell phones off. You can either rent the hot new release or, even better, search out that movie that you know your date has always wanted to see and hasn't been able to get hold of.

Home dating has a big drawback - you can fall into a pattern of keeping the relationship under your roof and not venture out - not give yourselves as a couple things to talk about and memories to share. Avoid making home dating a habit - if you think your budget is limiting your choice of dating venues, then you're not using your imagination. There are plenty of great things you can do that are inexpensive or free. Many free dating websites offer relationship and dating ideas so log on and check out loads of fresh and fun dating ideas.

Some of the best dates happen at home, where outside distractions simply don't exist and you can really focus on each other. If you're a regular home dater, try to theme each night differently to keep it interesting. You're only limited by your imagination.

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Romantic Anniversary Ideas.

As your anniversary approaches, are you wondering what you can do to make a real statement this year? Being romantic on your anniversary is the key to making the day stand out and showing the one you love that you are truly thrilled to be spending your life together. Here are some ideas that are sure to impress.

Romantic Anniversary Idea #1 - Recreate Your First Date

Do you remember where you had your first date? Is there something about that night that stands out, such as a special movie you watched or a song you danced to? As much as you can, recreate that day again. If you now live far from the location, find a similar place and do the same activities you did on that first day. This will impress and bring out feelings of nostalgia in your spouse. If you cannot remember the details of your first date, recreate the day you were engaged.

Romantic Anniversary Idea #2 - Have a Nighttime Picnic

Find a spot with a great nighttime view. Pack romantic foods, like cheese, strawberries, and wine, and enjoy a picnic after dark. Consider investing in some battery-operated lights that look like candles so you can enjoy a candle-lit meal without worrying about the wind blowing out the flame. Spend some time cuddling and watching the stars. Of course, you will need a back-up plan for rain.

Romantic Anniversary Idea #3 - Create a Memory Book

If you have a bunch of old photographs lying around of the two of you, compile them into a memory book, and include your sentiments about the memories they capture. If you are not crafty and the idea of creating a scrapbook is scary to you, you can do this online with scanned or digital images. The fact that you took the time to rekindle some of those old memories will be very meaningful to your partner.

No matter what you do, spend your anniversary remembering your history together. It is on that history that you will build your future, so do not let it be forgotten.

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Share some quite time.

Love is a beautiful thing.

           Find a quiet little place and just spend sometime being with each other.  No worries no concerns just the two of you being present with each other.  Talk about life, dreams or the spiritual.  Just take the time to be with each other and not let anything else in.  

Conversations Hit the Road.

          There is a brand new podcast out their that covers everything from the spiritual to the sexual.  That podcast is called Conversations Hit the Road.  You can find this wonderful podcast on itunes or you can find the home page by clicking here (Conversations Hit the Road).  Listen and start your own conversation with your partner and start learning to express you feelings.