Gotta love long night talks

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          You have to love long talks with your partner during the evening.  Take a night any night and try to start a conversation that will go on and on and on.  Maybe a bottle of wine or a trivia game might help to loosen the talk.  You can talk about your future, hot topics in the news, or even just your views on life itself.  The important part of this romantic talk is to listen as well as talk.  You should have equal flow between the two of you and the mood should be on of acceptance and openness.   You might just find things out about each other you never would have known other wise.  

Cards

A great place to tell your partner you love them is slipping a note or card in there underwear drawer.  However most are not this organized.  

          Nothing says I love you more then finding a card tucked into your drawer at home.  It is sexy sneaking and show effort on the part of your lover.  Make sure you return the favor when you can but enjoy the fact that today someone was thinking of making you smile.

Love is only a look away.

            Look around love is everywhere.  If you don't have love in your life right now it will soon happen.  Look around you might already have more love then you think around you.  

Sex is Exercise and should be treated that way.

Tantric and karma sutra practices can help here.  

            Sex is not only a great exercise for your relationship but for your health also.  We all know a great sex life helps in building a wonderful romantic relationship but you should also treat it like an exercise.  Set time amounts for your sex.  Have 30 minutes of foreplay before you every touch genitals together.  Try different positions to extend the time you are actually making love.  Brush up on oral techniques and other less talked about sexual stimulations,   Just like when you work out to help your body you need variety and to push yourself from time to time.   Keep track of numbers and try to improve them until you both are comfortable with the amount.   Heck make a sexercise chart for the two of you to keep track of after each session of making love.   If you both put effort into this project you will both be rewarded so dust off that booty and get ready.  

In the hospital? take inventory of who comes to see you.

It might be temping to wear your sexy nurse outfit to the hospital to help cheer up your mate.   However I think you mate would much rather see it once he/she gets outs of the hospital. 

          If you ever have the misfortune of having to stay an extended period in the hospital.  It is a good time to take inventory of the people that come to see you or call you.  Now we have to be realistic here for example if your Buddies have no idea you are in the hospital you can't hold it against them for not calling or coming by.  Same way with family or other friends.  Obviously your significant other will be there as much as possible.  Watch and see how each person comes into the room are they coming to see you or are they coming for a status symbol because everyone else is coming.   I have a person in my life that attends every funeral, wedding, and goes to the hospital to see anyone so much so that it makes it creepy.  It must be their own brand of social network.  It won't be hard to tell the people that care about you and why they are there.  They will be the ones asking what they can do to help without it being a show.  When all is said and done however your partner should be the one that makes you feel most comfortable while you are in the hospital.  

Bring a little light to bed.

bringing a little light to be can be a huge benefit.

           Most people are a little shy when it comes to being naked with each other.  Even when they have been in a relationship for a long time some people are a little nervous about letting there partner see them naked.  One the other side of the coin their partner would love to see them naked and would consider it an honor.   My suggestion is getting a flameless candle and putting in under your sheets.  This way the partner that is nervous doesn't feel like the are just out in the open and the other partner gets to see the body that he/she is worshiping.  It is a win win situation and can spark for added excitement in the bedroom.   Plus with being able to see you body better your partner might be able to work under the covers a little better.  Adding to more pleasure for the both of you. 

The winter blues!

Grown Ups has a classic summer feel to it.  

          By this time those of us that live in areas that have had snow and ice are going a little stir crazy right now.  We have been stuck inside, battling flu and cold season, as well as just trying to stay warm.  Yet we still have a couple of months before the nice weather starts to join us.  What I suggest the two of you do is start looking for summer type of things to do?  Go get a hotel for a night with a indoor pool and go swimming in this cold mess we have outside right now.  Clean the snow off your grill and cook some burgers to give that summer feel.   Even get a movie that has a summer twist to it to watch might I suggest Grown Ups with Adam Sandler in it along with a great cast.   By doing this you might fight off a little of the winter blues and keep your sanity.