Send a Christmas Carol to the one you love.

            What to make an impression on the person you love.  Send them one of those funny e-greeting Christmas Cards with a wonderful Christmas Carol attached.  There are many services out there with options from being able to pick the song you want to the ability to put your face on a dancing elf.  You can match your style to the e-card.  It can be funny or serious that all depends on you.  Send one a day for the 12 days of Christmas.  

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Amazing Sexual Energy

           Sexual Energy is one of the most amazing powers on the planet.  Think about it sex is the only action on the planet that can create life.  Yet we are afraid to talk about it here in America like it is the plague.  It is getting a little better but we still have such a bad stigma placed around it.  Next time you get to enjoy a wonderful evening of intimacy with your partner see how you feel afterwards.  The relaxation or the zing you feel it a special one that you share because of the actions of sex.  Not many other things can make you feel this wonderful.  Make it a point to slow down and enjoy this energy combination of the two of you each and every time you make love.  Start using the energy the two of you create to manifest wonderful things in your life.  Use it to keep your relationship healthy and strong you might just start wanting to have sex way more than ever before. 

All I want for Christmas is YOU!

          Not much money to spend on Christmas this year!  Then give gifts that don't cost a thing.  You can give kisses, hugs, and special favors to your lover.  Make up coupons for special treatments for your lover and then package them and wrap them up.  Not only will you not spend much money they will be just the right size and your partner will love them.  Even if you do have the money to purchase some other Christmas presents make sure to start making a tradition of sharing these type of gifts with your partner.  Believe me they will bypass the ipod you just got them to search for that special coupon from you.  

Romance is just an oven away.

Fresh baked cookies are a wonderful treat but the smell can create a warm mood also
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          Want to create a wonderful romantic moment from the time your love walks in the door.  Then put something in the oven to create a wonderful smell in your house.  Baking cinnamon rolls or cookies are two great smells to walk into.  Believe it or not smell can greatly effect our mood and if you put a warm and wonderful smell in the air your partner will respond to it.  Now if you are not a wonderful cook you can create these smells with the warming scent deodorizers you can buy at the store.  These wonderful warm home scents can change you house into a love nest for your and your partner.  So start thinking today about what scent your partner likes and then create that for the next time they walk into the house.  

Build up to christmas

          Here is a great idea to get the excitement in your relationship for Christmas.  Start picking up little things for you partner to give them to the days leading up to Christmas.  Things you will need like lip balm, gloves, or even shampoo.  Wrap them up and present them to your partner one each day.  Plan it out so that they get bigger and better each day until that magical day we call Christmas.  This is a fun way to build excitement during the holidays and in your relationship.  Once you try this I am sure it will fast become a tradition in your house.  

What to buy your love for Christmas

          Christmas time is on the way and now starts the process of deciding what to get your love for Christmas.  If you are smart you have been making note of everything they have shown interest all year long.  Be it a book, music, or clothing.  Maybe it is tickets to a show they want to see or a trip someplace exotic.  However is you don't have a clue right now can be a very stressful time for you.  Trying to pick just the right gift when you don't have a clue is exhausting and yet you don't want your partner to give you such a specific list that they know exactly what they will be getting.  This is where you might need to enlist the help of your partners friends or family to get the information you need.  If you are not close enough to them to get these answers however you will have to brave shopping together so see where their eyes roam.  Watch and see what items they look at or when the say "Oh, that is cute"  make a mental note don't take out a pen and paper and look like a dork.  If you honestly can't remember then text yourself the description of the item and tell your partner you were texting a friend.  Always remember it is the thought that counts but getting the right thing scores huge points.  

Black Friday is a memory now get some sleep

          Black Friday had everyone up at the crack of dawn scrambling for bargains either in the stores or online.  As Black Friday came to a close everyone drug themselves back home and spent the rest of the day tired and sunk in a chair.  Today is a great day to nap with your partner.  Snuggle up to watch a football game or movie and relax forget about the lines, the crowds, and the rude people.  It is time to enjoy being with the person that means something special to you.  If you lucky maybe you can talk them out of a massage as you recoup from your traumatic Black Friday experience.