Study something spiritual together.

Yoga can be very spiritual.

           Today for romance I am going to suggest that you study something spiritual together.  It doesn't have to be a religion as most people think about unless you want it to be.  You can study Huna, Astrial Projection, ESP or Channelling all which are spiritual in nature.  The topics are endless heck even UFO's, Bigfoot, and the Lock Ness Monster can be studied as spiritual.  You don't have to believe or feel strongly about the subject just learn about it together.  Talk about it and the findings.  You might find something that will set well with the two of your or you as an individual.  Things like Sex Magick might even help your relationship become closer.  If you just look around you will find there are many many things that are spiritual besides your local church.  

New Position Day.

Try one of these you must might like it!

          Today is a special day it is, "Try a new position in love making day"  I know it isn't an official holiday but we are working on that.  Cutting through the red tape however, all you need to do is try something a little different tonight as you make love.  If it doesn't work you can always switch back to your normal stand by.   The feeling is you might find something you like or put a little different feel into your sex life.  This is always a good thing.  How knows you might find a position that works so well it becomes your new favorite.  Do it for the holiday, do it in the name of science, or just do it because it is exciting and fun.  

Make your own Trail Mix.

Trail Mix YUMMMMMM

          Have you ever had a pre made trail mix.  You know with nuts, fruits or even chocolate in it.   My problem is that there always seems to be something in the mix I don't like.  Well here is the chance for you a your lover to make up a trail mix that is specific to you.  Go out and pick out the ingredients that the two of you love and then just throw them all together in packages or zip lock bags.  Now you have a trail mix the two of you love without any of the stuff you hate.   This encourages you to get out together more often and walk sharing time in nature.  Leave the bags out where you can see them to remind you that a great romantic walk is within your reach right now.  

Valentines Day Flowers or Plants

Valentines Day Plants are the new rage.  

             You can give flowers for Valentines Day and it is perfectly fine however do you really want to give a symbol of your love that will die in a week?  This is where I suggest picking up a plant something that can grow with your relationship.  Get a nice house plant that you can set in your bed room the extra oxygen in your room won't hurt anything and they nature touch will be a wonderful way to connect with the earth.  Plus as long as you water and let light in your plant should last a long time like your relationship.  So this year ditch the flowers on Valentines Day and pick up a Valentines Day plant. 

Add a little love to make anything grow.

          Just like your relationship a little love can make things grow in amazing ways.  Plants can benefit from talking and love from their owners as well as pets.  We all love to receive love it makes us feel better and more excited for the day.  With Valentines Day just around the corner you have unlimited ideas for sharing your love so don't delay start finding ways to show all the things and people you love how much you love them today.  

Gotta love long night talks

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          You have to love long talks with your partner during the evening.  Take a night any night and try to start a conversation that will go on and on and on.  Maybe a bottle of wine or a trivia game might help to loosen the talk.  You can talk about your future, hot topics in the news, or even just your views on life itself.  The important part of this romantic talk is to listen as well as talk.  You should have equal flow between the two of you and the mood should be on of acceptance and openness.   You might just find things out about each other you never would have known other wise.  

Cards

A great place to tell your partner you love them is slipping a note or card in there underwear drawer.  However most are not this organized.  

          Nothing says I love you more then finding a card tucked into your drawer at home.  It is sexy sneaking and show effort on the part of your lover.  Make sure you return the favor when you can but enjoy the fact that today someone was thinking of making you smile.

Love is only a look away.

            Look around love is everywhere.  If you don't have love in your life right now it will soon happen.  Look around you might already have more love then you think around you.  

Sex is Exercise and should be treated that way.

Tantric and karma sutra practices can help here.  

            Sex is not only a great exercise for your relationship but for your health also.  We all know a great sex life helps in building a wonderful romantic relationship but you should also treat it like an exercise.  Set time amounts for your sex.  Have 30 minutes of foreplay before you every touch genitals together.  Try different positions to extend the time you are actually making love.  Brush up on oral techniques and other less talked about sexual stimulations,   Just like when you work out to help your body you need variety and to push yourself from time to time.   Keep track of numbers and try to improve them until you both are comfortable with the amount.   Heck make a sexercise chart for the two of you to keep track of after each session of making love.   If you both put effort into this project you will both be rewarded so dust off that booty and get ready.  

In the hospital? take inventory of who comes to see you.

It might be temping to wear your sexy nurse outfit to the hospital to help cheer up your mate.   However I think you mate would much rather see it once he/she gets outs of the hospital. 

          If you ever have the misfortune of having to stay an extended period in the hospital.  It is a good time to take inventory of the people that come to see you or call you.  Now we have to be realistic here for example if your Buddies have no idea you are in the hospital you can't hold it against them for not calling or coming by.  Same way with family or other friends.  Obviously your significant other will be there as much as possible.  Watch and see how each person comes into the room are they coming to see you or are they coming for a status symbol because everyone else is coming.   I have a person in my life that attends every funeral, wedding, and goes to the hospital to see anyone so much so that it makes it creepy.  It must be their own brand of social network.  It won't be hard to tell the people that care about you and why they are there.  They will be the ones asking what they can do to help without it being a show.  When all is said and done however your partner should be the one that makes you feel most comfortable while you are in the hospital.