New Years Ever Surprise!

            Tonight is the night to ring in the New Year right.  If your not going out to a wonderful party or heading out to Times Square this year, maybe a little more intimate evening is in your future.  Why not ring in the new year making love to your partner.  Plan out a wonderful evening and dinner then suggest you spend the New Year making your own fireworks.  Pick out some sexy evening wear and well lets just say use your imagination a little and show your partner how great this New Year is going to be.  If your really have good timing you could just be making love as the year changes.

Don't forget who you are trying to impress.

          In our relationships we get so relaxed sometimes we forget the person we most want to impress is our partner.  We know our partner will loves us and we stop having to try and gain their attention and affection.  We wear our comfortable clothes all the time, we don't present ourselves in the best manner as in combing our hair or wearing our make up and even our manners sometimes get lazy.  Make it a point today to change this treat your partner/lover with respect by presenting yourself to them as you did when you were dating.  Make it a big deal to look good for them as often as you can.  Wear your good clothes around the house or when going out with them.  Make it a point to have a dress up dinner date even if it is one that you cook yourself at home.  Just make sure to let them know you still care about their attention and would love to have more of it.  

Today is the day to relax!

          Christmas is done and luckily for most of us that don't have to work on Sunday we have the day off today to recuperate.  You can take this time to enjoy the rest of the season and just relax.  Heck make a day out of laying on the couch watching movies you got for Christmas or football.  If you feel a little less like relaxing go out and see a movie or go to lunch somewhere.  Spend the time getting yourself back into normal mode by doing normal things.  Get away from the mess of your holiday parties and enjoy the day just the two of you.  How you spend it is up to the two of you as what ever works best for you two as a couple is what you should do.  

Love thy neighbor

           During the holidays we get wrapped up in our own family and making sure their holiday is the best.  Yet our neighbors we see everyday we seem to forget about.  How about making some cookies and taking them over to them, or give them a small gift like a certificate for a car wash.  You can create a wonderful friendship by appreciating all the people in your life.  

Make a date out of your Christmas shopping.

          It is very close to Christmas and if your like me you still have to pick up a few things here and there.  Instead of doing this along ask your partner to tag along and make a date out of the adventure.  Go to lunch and enjoy the holiday spirit with your special person.  Think about how big of a present you have in just being able to spend time with each other.  

Send a Christmas Carol to the one you love.

            What to make an impression on the person you love.  Send them one of those funny e-greeting Christmas Cards with a wonderful Christmas Carol attached.  There are many services out there with options from being able to pick the song you want to the ability to put your face on a dancing elf.  You can match your style to the e-card.  It can be funny or serious that all depends on you.  Send one a day for the 12 days of Christmas.  

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Amazing Sexual Energy

           Sexual Energy is one of the most amazing powers on the planet.  Think about it sex is the only action on the planet that can create life.  Yet we are afraid to talk about it here in America like it is the plague.  It is getting a little better but we still have such a bad stigma placed around it.  Next time you get to enjoy a wonderful evening of intimacy with your partner see how you feel afterwards.  The relaxation or the zing you feel it a special one that you share because of the actions of sex.  Not many other things can make you feel this wonderful.  Make it a point to slow down and enjoy this energy combination of the two of you each and every time you make love.  Start using the energy the two of you create to manifest wonderful things in your life.  Use it to keep your relationship healthy and strong you might just start wanting to have sex way more than ever before. 

All I want for Christmas is YOU!

          Not much money to spend on Christmas this year!  Then give gifts that don't cost a thing.  You can give kisses, hugs, and special favors to your lover.  Make up coupons for special treatments for your lover and then package them and wrap them up.  Not only will you not spend much money they will be just the right size and your partner will love them.  Even if you do have the money to purchase some other Christmas presents make sure to start making a tradition of sharing these type of gifts with your partner.  Believe me they will bypass the ipod you just got them to search for that special coupon from you.  

Romance is just an oven away.

Fresh baked cookies are a wonderful treat but the smell can create a warm mood also
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          Want to create a wonderful romantic moment from the time your love walks in the door.  Then put something in the oven to create a wonderful smell in your house.  Baking cinnamon rolls or cookies are two great smells to walk into.  Believe it or not smell can greatly effect our mood and if you put a warm and wonderful smell in the air your partner will respond to it.  Now if you are not a wonderful cook you can create these smells with the warming scent deodorizers you can buy at the store.  These wonderful warm home scents can change you house into a love nest for your and your partner.  So start thinking today about what scent your partner likes and then create that for the next time they walk into the house.  

Build up to christmas

          Here is a great idea to get the excitement in your relationship for Christmas.  Start picking up little things for you partner to give them to the days leading up to Christmas.  Things you will need like lip balm, gloves, or even shampoo.  Wrap them up and present them to your partner one each day.  Plan it out so that they get bigger and better each day until that magical day we call Christmas.  This is a fun way to build excitement during the holidays and in your relationship.  Once you try this I am sure it will fast become a tradition in your house.