Monday, May 18, 2009

Confidence, confidence, confidence!


Guys here is a secret that woman want you to know. They love it when you have confidence in yourself. They love it when you make decisions and have the air about you. Now don't take this over the top. Today's woman doesn't want a caveman beating her over the head. She does however want you to speak up and tell what's on your mind. Believe me it saves so much time when you are on a date. You know how you spend several minutes going "What do you want to do", "I don't know what do you want to do" Instead of doing this just blurt out a suggestion and go from there. Believe me if she doesn't want to do what you suggest, she will tell you.


Confidence in the bedroom is also a big turn on. Try different thing and let her tell you if she likes them or not. The problems arises when you ask her what she wants. If she tells you something then she has to wonder how you are gonna view her based on this. Play around a little and as your relationship progresses the communication can and should get better. Never assume your partner is going to just yell out what they want. It doesn't work that way. Believe me sometimes you both want the same things but both are afraid to start the ball rolling. My wife and I had one of these moments just a few weeks ago. We did something a little different then we usually do. Then in discussing it later we found out we both have wanted to try it for a while now but were afraid to ask.


Confidence is a big boost even if you fail, with confidence on your side at least you tried. Confidence makes you stand up taller, look better, feel better, and sexier!!! So get confident today. If you need assistance you might look for some assertiveness training to help you out. It can be a big change for a person and might take some time to accomplish. So don't delay get confident today.

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