Wednesday, October 22, 2014

Just What Does It Mean to Date?

Make That Date
By: Dr. Jeff Davis

Look at a scenario concerning dating;
You look across the room and there he or she is. This person has a warm smile, pretty face and looks great physically. Your mind begins to consider what your eyes are looking at and you smile back. You like what you see. Then you move on and open your mouth. A brief conversation occurs (you both giggle a bit, smile a lot) and you find yourself asking if this person would like to meet you for coffee or breakfast to just talk. They say yes.
You just made a date!
What is the definition for dating? What does it mean? Different people have different meanings for what it means to them. Here is a general definition;
Dating. The practice of going out with someone to have company and companionship with, oftentimes with the goal of seeking a permanent lifetime partner.
Dating has been around for centuries. People have used dating as the main way to meet someone of the opposite sex. It keeps your options open and is a good way to find people who are compatible with you.
Here are some reasons people look for someone to be with:
1) Friendship date - someone who you know and are comfortable in their presence. You call them up to just hang out, maybe no real agenda.
2) Eye Candy - this is the person you ask to go out with you when you want to be seen with someone stunning on your arms.
3) Sex Partner - this is the person that you find is good in bed. People who arrange for these types of dates typically only want one thing. Once that has been satisfied the partner can go on their own way.
4) Dance Partner - this person is the one you go out with to party. They love to dance and do the whole party scene so you can go out on a "night on the town"
5) Fun Partner - this person you call up when you are just lonely or need some company. You may have no special place to be and not want sex, just company.
6) Finding a life partner - We call this "dating to mate" where you are looking for that marriage material date.
The only way you can get to know someone is to go out with them, spend time with them and get to know them better. People tend to be on their best behavior when you first meet. It is only after spending time with them do you get to see who they really are. You can go and have some fun.
This article is an excerpt from my new book "Do You Want to Date or Mate" available on Amazon. For more info visit my website.
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Kiss outside your home!

Something that gets lost in the middle or relationships is the good night kiss. When you move in together or spend a lot of time at each others house, we all seem to move our kisses inside the house. My suggestion is the next time you have an enjoyable evening out you should kiss at the door as kind of an end to a great evening. Even if your are going to have more fun when you get inside, it is a nice statement and an innocent act that makes you think back to the first few times you were together. Think about how romantic it is to kiss under the stars on a warm summer evening, and I think you will definitely feel great about doing it.

Monday, October 20, 2014

Random Act of Kindness

It's time to take some action. Hopefully your relationship is strong and if not, it's time to put that aside for a bit and help someone else. If you look around, I am sure you can find someone not far from you that needs help. The older woman down the street that can't mow her yard very well, the family where both parents are unemployed, or maybe it's just your grandmother that can’t get out to the store very easy. I am sure when you start thinking about it there are several people around you that could use a boost up. Sometimes helping someone else is the best way to help ourselves.

My wife has told me several times about how lucky we are compared to some of the other couples she runs into. I agree with her. Sure there are a lot of things we would like to have, but we don't need them. Go out and do something for someone else with no expectations of a return. I think they call them random acts of kindness. Help someone load his/her groceries in to the car, stop and help someone with a flat tire, clean out your closet and donate all the clothes that you don't wear to charity. If you really think about it, we have an over abundance and it might even seem to others as if we are very rich when we see ourselves as unfortunate.

How can this help my relationship you might ask? Well if you’re asking that question, maybe you’re not ready to complete this activity. You should get a great sense of pride helping other people. That is the reward. Put that into a situation where both of you work together to help someone and you both get that feeling. Sharing that feeling with your partner is worth more money than you could ever make. I would love to hear about the two of you and how you helped someone out, so don't be shy. Share your stories with us.

Remember - sometimes the little things you do are the most appreciated thing you do!

Friday, October 17, 2014

Do You Know The Language of Desire?

Sexy Song of The Night

Poison - Talk Dirty To Me

Learn how to turn any man on like a light switch (without even touching him) . . . 

Thursday, October 16, 2014

Sensual Motivation

Sensual Motivation

Motivation is described as the act or process of giving someone a reason for doing something. This e-book asks if you are allowing yourself to be motivated in your intimate life. Most people feel or think that sex will just take care of itself. But, how many things in your world just fix themselves? Not many. Sensual Motivation is designed to let you take control of what motivates you in your passionate relationship with your partner.  

This book gives you the self-adjusting tools to bring power not only to your love life but, to your world as a whole. Most motivational coaches will give you a step-by-step list to reach your outcome. Yet, aren’t they overlooking that you are not like everyone else? Do they really think that one size fits all when it comes to motivation? We, at Sexy Challenges, want to honor your individuality and allow you to personalize your experience.  

Within Sensual Motivation you will learn how to blend your energy and motivation with your partner. Then, you will find ways to use that energy in all aspects of your life. Instead of us pumping you up with popular music and a bunch of cheesy words, we help you find ways within to motivate yourself. This motivation will come out in physical, mental, emotional and spiritual confidence. Sensual Motivation will allow you to be a more sensual person and experience a fuller life and relationship.  

Sensually speaking the motivation is inside you, learning to pull it out will make you a better lover, a more caring lover and a lover that your partner adores.  

Tuesday, October 14, 2014

Christmas Shopping WTF? It's October

I know what you are thinking Halloween hasn't even happened yet and we are talking about Christmas?  Well think about it on Oct 31st the stores will begin setting up their Holiday displays.  Why not be ahead of the curve and get your shopping done early this year.  Think about how much more fun you can have during the holiday season if you don't have to spend most of it shopping.  You may think it is silly but one of the best Holidays I ever had was when I had all my shopping done before the 1st of December.   I really had more time to enjoy the parties and snuggling under the mistletoe. 

While your shopping pick up something for yourself:

Sunday, October 12, 2014

Make A Romantic Newspaper For Your Lover

This can be a fun prank, gift, or just goofing around!  I put your picture or image in a newspaper/webzine style picture with a news story that can be silly, odd, realistic, marketing, or anything.

UNLIKE many services that do this, I do not use a quick online generator that can only put in a pre-defined image and very limited text.  My gigs are done by me using graphic design tools.  I do use a template for most gigs, but I can customize nearly anything depending on how complex you want your order to be.

I can use your image and text or mine depending on the gig you order.  See my basic gig and extras for more explanation and for even better results, contact me first to discuss what you want.  If you already know what you want the article to say, you can get that for the basic $5 gig!  If you want me to write a story I am also a professional writer and ghostwriter.  

Stories can feature you or other names/images: social/celebrity; odd, business; catastrophe/apocalyptic; advertising, etc. NOTE: If you are not using an image of you, I will assume you are using it privately or with proper permission.  I do not take responsibility for how it is used after your purchase.

This Fiver Gig is sure to bring many laughs to both you and your friends.  

Click the Link Below to start the laugher.