Balanced Life

A Balanced life is one that is filled with all the things you want and need. You can't ignore any part of your life if you want your romance to skyrocket. For example you cannot put all your energy into being romantic, that you forget about other things. Things like taking care of your health, or focusing on your profession. It is hard to be romantic when you are so out of shape you or that you don't have any money to be romantic. In turn you also have to have balance in your relationship, it can't all be romance you have to do the basic things to like the chores around the house or helping your partner with things they have to do. Once you understand that romance fits into that balanced lifestyle, then it just gets better and better. Always make sure you remember to be romantic but never forget to live the other parts of your life.

Friday night flings

Friday starts the weekend for most people yet it is not the big night to go out. Saturday dominates the party night while friday comes in a distant second. You can use this to your advantage. Friday night is a great night to go out if you are wanting to talk and find out more about your love. Find places that don't have bands on fridays or that don't get hoppin until Saturday and spend the evening over a few drinks and some good conversation. Another option here is to get out early before the party crowd hits and have your conversation and drinks and then do something a little more personal like taking a walk, going to a movie, or maybe back to one of your places!!

Practice that New Years Eve Kiss

Want to get the New Years Eve kiss just right? Well the only way to perfection is through practice. To get enough practice in you need to ask for a practice kiss several times during the day today. That what you will primed and ready as the clock strikes midnight tonight. Happy New Year everyone out there that is romantic.

Christmas Eve time for special presents.

All the focus during the Holidays is the big day of Christmas. Christmas eve is usually reserved for trips to Grandparents or parents houses for gift exchanges with your family. No one is expecting a blow out gift from Grandma who usually buys you something you wanted when you were twelve. However, this is one of the best times to get your lover a little something special. Wait until all of the festivities of the day are over and when the two of you are alone and about ready to settle down for your long winters nap, present him/her with a little special gift to go to sleep on. Now this can be a number of things but the things I find that work the best are jewelry, and sexual items. When you give on this night make sure it is one that you want a major reaction from like jumping up and down or just plane getting mauled by the receiver. You won't get the same reaction on Christmas morning when you partner opens that new sex toy in front of everyone. Nor will you get as many kisses from the nice necklace you purchased during the family feast. Plan out which gifts you would like to give in private then make a routine of giving these gifts on Christmas eve.

Break out the Christmas Shows from your past.

It doesn't matter if her 18 or 65 you still have some type of Christmas show that you watched when you were younger. The one I can remember the most is "A Charlie Brown Christmas" I couldn't wait of it to come on when I was younger. I even saw that it is still on today. One of my sisters and I would always stay up late on Christmas and we would watch an old Bob Hope movie called "The Lemon Drop Kid" If you go searching now a days I am sure you can find a dvd of your favorite Christmas Show or better yet find out your partners favorite and pick one of those up. Give it to them on Christmas Eve and watch it together before retiring for the night. Sad to say but a lot of people associate time frames with what was on television at that time. This action might just put him/her back into a time frame where magic happened.

Don't date above your means

Just some basic words of advice. Don't date above your means. We all want to impress our dates especially on the first few dates. We want them to think we are comfortable with our lifestyle. Sometimes it is easy to overdue it and go out to a super fancy restaurant or take a trip somewhere. These things are fun but if they don't fit in your budget, you will be paying for them for a long time. Be honest with your date and pick restaurants that are in your price range or find fun things to do that don't cost a lot. Believe me your date needs to know your status from the beginning. Don't make him/her believe that you have money to burn if you don't. That will only lead to tension later down the line. If you date really likes you and enjoys being with you then the amount of money you make won't make a difference. Never ever spend more on a date then you can afford, it only leads to troubles. Be creative and find things to do that are fun and cheap if you need to, I am sure your date will appreciate the effort that you put into your evening together.