Showing posts with label spouse. Show all posts
Showing posts with label spouse. Show all posts

Monday, August 16, 2010

Play dress up


Do you spend most of your days in shorts and t-shirts around the house? Is you basic dressing up putting on a polo shirt and a nice pair of jeans or wearing a matching sweat outfit. Well as a romantic gesture I want to suggest breaking out the dress clothes and going out on the town. I do mean dressing up suit and tie or dress and heels. This is a great way for your partner to see you and it will make them see how great you look dressed up. Most people say that their partner looks awesome when they are dressed up, but do they say that when you put on your normal clothes. I am not suggesting you dress like this all the time but every once in a while will remind your partner what you look like when you get all dressed up. Go out to a fancy restaurant or just go walk around expensive places to see how it feels. Get yourself comfortable in your dress clothes. Plus it is good to put them on from time to time to make sure they still fit. This way you have a heads up before you need them for a job interview or a wedding.

Tuesday, November 24, 2009

Get your lists ready.


A good thing to do for each other at this time of year is to make a christmas list for each other. I am not talking about a list of specific things that you want but a list of several things you would like to do in your future. Things you would like to do around the holidays or traditions you would like to start. Maybe you would love to take a trip on day on Christmas to the Mexico or maybe you would love to start collecting special holiday ornaments. Jot down all the little things you think would make the holidays special, maybe watching a specific movie each year around the holidays or making a certain kind of cookie only at this time of year. Make sure you can carry any traditions into the future for when you have children or your partner becomes your spouse. This is a way to kinda play house if your not already married or in a serious relationship. It might feel funny but you might be amazed somewhere down the road when you partner remembers something you said on that day and presents you with tickets to your dream destination or brings home a special ornament for you Christmas tree you have only dreamt about. Dreaming is a large part of your relationship as long as you do it together.