Showing posts with label competition. Show all posts
Showing posts with label competition. Show all posts

Sunday, May 24, 2009

Today is Race Day!


Living here in Indiana everything today centers around the Indianapolis 500. So why not center our romance today around a race. Today you and your partner race at everything. Whether you are cleaning the house, riding bikes, or getting undressed for bed. Have a little fun and race at everything. You can race to see who eats their lunch the fastest or time yourself and see who takes the quickest shower. If you have a video game system find or rent on of the cart games and challenge each other to some racing fun. Competition is good for a relationship as long as it is in good fun. If you have to win every time then this competition thing is not for you. Well I will sign out for now, just tell me who wins!

Tuesday, April 28, 2009

Go Bowling


Go Bowling Here is a great activity that you both can do. Even people that are not that athletic can roll a ball down the lane. Do a search for a local bowling center in your area. Find the closest one, and get the phone number. Call or visit the website to find out when the open bowling hours are. Then you can plan a date around an evening of bowling. If you are an active bowler, take a break and don't take your fancy-shmancy equipment. Get rental shoes at the center, use a house ball off the rack and if you’re really a lot better than your partner, use your opposite hand (but don’t make a big deal about that – especially if you still bowl better than your date). The point is to make it fun and not a competition. Take your time. You are not under any time limits here. Flip a coin to see who goes first. If one is a lot better than the other, discuss a handicap such as giving the other person bonus pins or the first person has to throw the ball in the gutter on the first ball every time. Like I said earlier, make an evening of it and do pizza and beer before or after the bowling. The point is to enjoy the evening without getting too involved with the activities. Try to remember the very first time you went bowling, and look at the evening in that regard. If bowling is not your thing, use a substitute.


Some activities that might work include miniature golf, go cart racing or even bingo. Get away from the competition and just enjoy participating with your partner in an activity that is fun. If you have to wait, don't worry most recreational facilities have other forms of enjoyment to participate in during your wait. You may discover arcade games or batting cages. Let your hair down and have a ball.