Make sure to share beautiful visions together.

Last night we had a big thunder storm here. The amazing part about it was the wonderful rainbow that appeared right before the down poor started. The sky was a hazy grey and the clouds were stirring but the most vibrant rainbow I have ever seen arched it's way perfectly through the clouds. I waited patiently for my partner to finish putting our child to bed as I hoped this image would not go away before she would get a chance to see it. Luckily for both of us she made it out in time, we both were amazed at the wonderful colors that broke through the grey storm clouds. At one point we could see the double rainbow that is so rare to see. I bet we stood outside for a 20 minutes marveling at the wonder nature had presented us. We touched and held hands as we became part of this magical vision. The funny part was we were so amazed by it that several of the people driving by in their cars stopped to witness this amazing sight also. So, romantically speaking anytime you see a truly amazing sight try to share it with your partner. The things we witness together mean so much to us as a couple.

Star Trek (Click here to go to the earth sky website - To find out whats going on in the heavins tonight)

Here is a quickie that will be a wonderful event between you and your partner. Find some cushions, bean bag chairs, or even a blanket, and on the next clear warm summer night head outside. Arrange whatever sitting or laying device you have brought out and position it so that you can gaze skywards without straining your neck. Also, make sure that in this position you can touch or hold your partner. Then simply relax and enjoy the greatest light show in the universe. This is a great stress reliever also as it seems to put some perspective into your life. You could even brush up a little on your astronomy or even purchase a book showing the constellations so that you and your partner can enjoy trying to point them out to each other. If you have a quiet back yard, you might even bring out a little mood music or even just a taping of a waterfall or rain. But, first and foremost relax, take your time and enjoy searching the cosmos with your love.

Not a night person? You can do the same thing during a warm summer day, but instead of stars use clouds. Point out clouds and what their shapes look like to you, and then see what your partner sees in the same cloud. It is quite interesting to see the differences in your ideas. Don't be afraid to involve your children in this too. I love to hear the perspective of a young child, and this will bring you closer as a family, which will bring you closer as a couple.