Make dinner, conversation time.

When we go out to eat or even eat a home for that matter, we are setting up a great time to discuss and learn about each other. Even if you have been married or dating for years there is always something you can learn from great conversation. Find topics that you can discuss that will have both of your offering your opinions. Don't be only a listener, engage in the conversation and get your ideas heard. Find out about things going on in your partners life they you might not hear about other wise. Things like work, or happenings in their life that you are not apart of. Make it a game and ask questions of each other, take turns and make the other person answer each of your questions. A good night of conversation is actually foreplay and with your minds stimulated your bodies are soon to follow.

Keeping Romance Hot

I think most everyone knows that romance is about making your partner feel special. There are several ways to do that, be it bringing home flowers, surprising them with a night out, or maybe even taking a trip. We need to also keep romance alive in our bedrooms. Maybe that wasn't a good statement as some of you might be having intimacy outside of the bedroom. To be truly romantic in your love life you have to make your partner feel like you think they are special. Sex is one of the easiest ways to accomplish this feat. For starters put your focus of foreplay on your partner, make their sensation the best it can be. Use different items and toys to bring their excitement level to the top. Speak to them during your activities, tell them how much you love them and how great of lover they are. This little things are a big turn on for most people. You might be wondering about now when is it your turn to be the center of sexual attention. Well you can't force someone to act this way, but if your partner truly loves you then the both of you will find ways to take turns pleasing the other person. I suggest however making your partner the total focus once in a while, meet only their needs and see what happens. Now everyone deserves a chance at this and if tonight is your turn to lay back and enjoy, you need to make plans to reciprocate the actions.

Romance Game

Here is a simple game of romance. Take turns telling each other what you feel is romantic. Be it places to go, or just things to do together. Start out slow maybe saying "I think the most romantic place in the world is...." Then the next person says their feelings on the subject. Elaborate on each output and tell why you thing it would be romantic. This is a great way to get to know your partner better. You would think you would only have to play this game once. Well I am here to tell you, that you should make a point to play it at least a couple of times a year. People change and as we get older so do our needs and wants. So at 18 I might think making love on the beach would be the best thing ever. Now that I am old I think about the sand and where it would end up. Nothing is set in stone, make notes but use a pencil as the changes happen.