How To Get The Conversation Rolling On The First Date

Dating is imperative because it is the best way to find out if you and your guy are in sync. There are some really good questions to ask on a first date and others that can automatically disqualify you for a 2nd date. On a first date it is essential that the dialogue is kept light and cool. Keep in mind not to be too hard on your date. Your date will be annoyed. Your goal should be to allow your date to feel comfortable and at ease around you. Make sure you are asking your date appropriate questions.
Here are some questions that are appropriate:

1. What is his favorite band? What is his all time favorite movie? Do not stop there. Asking follow up questions is important to continue the discussion. Make sure you are listening to his answers because you will be able to feed off them to carry on the dialogue. What is on the news? What are his opinions on it? Pick what you talk about carefully. Avoid those topics that might be depressing or sad. You want the discussion to stay relaxed and upbeat.

2. Ask your date what he is passionate about. This information can sometimes be hard to gather if he is unsure of what he wants to do in the future. Asking someone what they are passionate about could result in a job interview sort of answer. Try asking him if he were on a deserted island what one item he would not want to live without, this will get the conversation rolling. This is a great way to determine what they are excited about without putting them on the spot.

3. What is a usual day like for him? Asking this question will unveil how he spends most of his time, maybe he has a game that he plays on a daily basis or he could be part of an organization, use this information to venture into other conversations. You can also ask about favorite and worse parts about their job.

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