Saturday, February 5, 2011

In the hospital? take inventory of who comes to see you.

It might be temping to wear your sexy nurse outfit to the hospital to help cheer up your mate.   However I think you mate would much rather see it once he/she gets outs of the hospital. 
          If you ever have the misfortune of having to stay an extended period in the hospital.  It is a good time to take inventory of the people that come to see you or call you.  Now we have to be realistic here for example if your Buddies have no idea you are in the hospital you can't hold it against them for not calling or coming by.  Same way with family or other friends.  Obviously your significant other will be there as much as possible.  Watch and see how each person comes into the room are they coming to see you or are they coming for a status symbol because everyone else is coming.   I have a person in my life that attends every funeral, wedding, and goes to the hospital to see anyone so much so that it makes it creepy.  It must be their own brand of social network.  It won't be hard to tell the people that care about you and why they are there.  They will be the ones asking what they can do to help without it being a show.  When all is said and done however your partner should be the one that makes you feel most comfortable while you are in the hospital.  

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