No way Garage Selling is romantic!

Garage sales are one of the very last things I think about when I vision romance. Riffling through other peoples juke that they are selling for pennies doesn't even sound like fun to me. What however if you could make these garage sales pay for your date nights or vacations trips? Now they are starting to get a little more interesting. Think about it this way say the two of you start hitting a garage sale from time to time. You both look for things that you think are priced way to cheep maybe it's clothes or trinkets it doesn't matter. Look for things you can at least triple your money on. So if you buy it for a quarter you should be able to sell it for seventy-five cents. Once your bargain hunting starts to build and you get enough stuff for a sell of your own then have one. With all the money you are going to have you should be able to go out for a wonderful evening and if your really lucky use the money for a vacation. Make sure to keep track of how much you spend on all the items and price them accordingly so to not loose track of your goals. Heck you might even find out this can be a very profitable venture for the romance in your life.

Keep a little stash in your drawer.

One thing that every couple needs is a little stash in their drawer. I am not talking about drugs here I am referring to some sexual aids. You need to keep a drawer full of sexy items such as lubes, vibrators, cock rings, etc. Make sure you keep the drawer close by so that you can have easy access to the items as the mood hits. Make sure the drawer is only accessible by the two of you. The last thing you want is your small children running around the house carrying a vibrator when grandma comes over. So find a way to lock your drawer and to your pleasure items.

Check out those Victoria Secret Catalogs.

If you have ever ordered anything from Victoria's Secret you now most likely get a catalog in the mail regularly. Both women and men enjoy looking through the glossy pages of sexy and well crafted clothing. Here is something you can do to make your female partner know you are thinking about them instead of just drooling over the models. Take a marker and circle the items you find sexy. Then out to the side write things like, "You would look great in this!" or "I couldn't keep my hands off you if you were wearing this" Who knows maybe you will get a surprise later or your partner will order the sexy item to share with you later. You can do the same thing with the men's catalogs you get or even catalogs from you favorite sex toy store. I bet you never thought a catalog could bring your relationship closer! Time to start flipping through the pages.

A Simple Quote today

"Love makes all that is heavy, light"

Thomas Kempis

These words ring so true I don't know how much better things can be then when you are in love.

Sometimes it is just best to stay out of the way.

As your relationship grows you will start to sense times when you need to leave your partner alone. It might be a certain time of the month or a certain day of the week. It could also be sporadic in nature but you can just tell by the way they are acting. On these days it is better just to stay away from the subject of making them feel better. For example if Mondays are a bad day because it is back to work time, then give them the space. Don't try to make them feel better only to get them upset with you let them roll around in their anger. Don't give them the chance to direct the anger towards you on these days that you know they are going to be upset. If you partner is female, then track her menstrual cycle to see the days that might be a good day for you to hang with the guys. You don't always have to cheer up your partner. This has taken me many years to understand but sometimes you just have to let them fume for them to get over it.

Making it easier to be apart.

There are times in our relationships when we have to be apart for extended periods of time. These are not easy on our relationships. It is important to express you love before you leave for this time apart. Think of it as making up in advance for lost time. You have to look at it as trying to fit part of your relationship that you are going to miss into the time frame before you leave. For example if you normally have a date night every Friday night then you need to try to slip in two date nights the week before you leave. Same goes for sex you need to put a little extra effort into your intimacy before you leave. This makes the leaving easier on the partner staying home because it shows that you are going to miss the time together, also. Then the same thing goes for when you get back, which always seems a little easier. Your relationship shouldn't have to suffer because you have to be gone. Doing it right can build your relationship stronger. Being apart allows you to have some alone time and it also can build desire as you anticipate the return home. Use the time apart as a building exercise instead of a absence.

Get up early

We all claim that there is not enough time in the day to get things done and have time for our relationships. Well you can help that out by getting up a little earlier on the weekend days. Sneak out of bed early and start getting things done so that you will have time later for your partner. Laundry, dishes, and cleaning can get done at anytime of the day so why not make it in the morning and get them out of the way. Nothing says you care more then going out of your way to make more time for you partner. Love is the most important thing to make time for, that is a wonderful rule to follow.